The common notion goes that women love bad boys because they are confident in themselves and do what THEY WANT. More simply, this has translated to the fact that women love guys who are confident in themselves. So what I wanna know is that if women are attracted to guys who are confident in themselves, then why does every action narrow down to being alpha or beta? I mean guys here ask the most specific questions here, eg: Is texting her with emojis beta??

So my point is, what is the point of overthinking and narrowing every action of you day into alpha or beta behavior? Can't you just show and have confidence in what you do and say with women and make it attractive? Eg: If you play online computer games, if you hide it from her and view it as beta yourself then the chances are she will see it as beta as well. But some guys make it very clear to their plates/LTRs and get their dicks sucked while playing games. So tell me if this applies to everything.