First guy was the one I talked about in an earlier post, who tried to call me from different numbers, after I had said no. He also acted all "offended" that I didn't want a relationship, because he did. And yet, at no point did he ever use his words and tell me what I wanted. Plus he honestly just seemed slow, and some of his usages just seemed like second-language speaker. I don't have any time for mindreading, and I don't have time for anyone who isn't highly fluent and doesn't have a high vocabulary. I did tell him I was blocking him before I did, but not for his benefit, for mine, to give myself closure, to draw a firm boundary. And it felt great just cutting him off at the knees. No more access.

The other one, whose name I can never quite remember because I don't ever add anyone, it's a matter of time, but he's next on the chopping block. Whenever I have chatted on this app, absolutely no other men ever (over a span of years) has ever complained that the app is too slow, or they have problems with it, so it's him, either him personally, or a shitty connection, but not my problem. He says hi, then doesn't talk or just takes forever to respond. I'm tired of my time being wasted. Today also he said, "but you have the chance to marry again" after I already said before, nope, no third marriage ever. Arguing against my choices for my life? Get your ass out the door NOW. Once again, I'll tell him I'm blocking him, but not for him, for me, to give myself the gift of closure.

Does not matter if they comprehend. I do and this is done for MY benefit. They're scrotes; they're not worth my time, and blocking and moving on feels THE BEST. It is so good to be pro-active and not take any low-value behavior. And yes, I DID just re-read the handbook. Helps a lot to review every so often!