So, I went out on Wednesday night with my girlfriend and a lot of our friends. It was all going well until I majorly lost frame, mainly when I saw my girlfriend making out with one of the (female) friends we came with. I won’t go into specifics of how I lost frame, but I am quite sure that I have managed to sort that part out.

However, her kissing this girl is still majorly playing on my mind. In fairness, they are literally best friends, but it still doesn’t feel right. She also had ‘a few’ three way kisses with the same girl and one of my best male friends. This annoyed me too, and if I read such a post, I’d probably be advising the author to get out now. But, our friend is so deep in the friend zone, he was also very drunk and it was just a peck. I’m aware that sounds like I’m trying to justify this, but I do believe it was innocent- the same girl that she kissed often comes up and randomly kisses me (she even did that night, and that is totally innocent) but what worries me is if some Chad comes up to her on a night when it’s just her…

We are going to be moving 200 miles away in October and will only see each other every 8 weeks. (for 2-4 weeks at a time, though). So, I do not have high hopes for the relationship, but I now have 3 months off and if I split with her, then it would seem like I have thrown away 3 months of fun- everything else is great between us. Ending it for this reason seems logical in some ways, but bad in others.

I didn’t really bring the specific events of the night up in our chat and would’t be sure how to without losing frame again. What should I do?