Crosspost "Going to talk to my wife about getting a sex toy" from /r/DeadBedrooms:

I (30HLM) have been married to my (31LLF) wife for 7 years and we have been struggling with a dead bedroom for the last 2 years. It's been almost a month since we last had sex and I'm going to talk to her about getting a Fleshlight.

When she talked to me about her getting a vibrator I was very supportive and enthusiastic about it. It has been great. I'm so happy that she can use it when I'm not available and we use it during sex which is great.

About 6 months ago I expressed interest in getting a Fleshlight to her and she basically told me no. It's a double standard for sure but I let it go and didn't get one. It was shortly after she got her vibrator which was our first sex toy ever.

I'm going to bring it up again. Without sex I'm masterbating way more than normal and I have rough hands do even while using lube my dick can get sore. Not sure if I'm looking for advice specifically but I'm open to any advice or questions you might have.

Posted by jimforyouruse | 26 October 2021 | Link