It's been "not my business" this whole time, so I've always been smiling and nodding at it all. I initially believed I was just biased against thing guy due to my "rigid standard of masculinity", but even my feminist friends think he's a wimp. I don't want to put him on blast here, but he doesn't have hardly anything going for him, and he will ghost her for days on end due to "his depression" and it puts me in rage mode when I hear about it. Our circle is pretty liberal when it comes to relationships, and even those who sleep around and such are concerned about his quality as a man.

A big part of me feels like it's not my place to say anything, but I really care about her and worry so much that things won't get better and she won't get what she deserves (so basically the whole world) out of this....