Red flag: Emotional incest/family enmeshment

fireforestfairy · 2021-11-25T14:43:52+00:00

I think this is more common in cultures which value collectivism. To me, it's not really emotional incest but a guy thinking blood is thicker than water. Anyway, I agree with what you've said. Getting along with a guy is tough. It's even tougher to get along with all of his family members if they are so attached.

This is rarely discussed here, but it's definitely possible for your in-laws to hate you due to competition. Sometimes his parents will resent you for "stealing their son's attention" despite how they don't want him to die alone. His younger unmarried siblings may also resent you for "stealing their brother".

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Title	Red flag: Emotional incest/family enmeshment
Author	Nonsluttymen
Upvotes	36
Comments	4
Date	November 25, 2021 1:32 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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