So this guy's gf wants to do onlyfans, and he's sad coz she didn't tell him perhaps. Some comments were saying the boy is an INCEL if he doesn't want such a relationship, and he should just shut up and not have a say in the matter. Idk if this post fits here (more contx of the OGpost content comment

AbsoluteSereniti · 2021-12-11T00:09:17+00:00

That fking comment section was cancer.

Literally you've got these pro-sexworker people and people that think a woman can do whatever the fuck she wants because its her body.

AbsoluteSereniti · 2021-12-10T18:56:52+00:00

People should start holding both sexes to moral standard.

fk-reddit · 2021-12-10T18:48:51+00:00

I never understood why guys in these situations don’t just break up with the girl Lmao like I’d do this almost immediately in his shoes and stop caring. not to be a dick but I guess if you allow yourself to get in a relationship with the type of girl who would do OF you’re already not great at life choices

Puzzleface62 · 2021-12-10T19:53:00+00:00

How can someone be an incel if they're in a relationship? People throw that term around too much these days. It means "involuntarily celibate" not "guy i don't like"

Little_Princess1997 · 2021-12-11T02:37:41+00:00

This is why people in Porn typically date each other. I cant see a relationship working where one (male or female) is throwing themselves out there in an intimate (like having actual sex) form of sex work and not expecting some kind of jealousy coming from their partner.

functionalsociopathy · 2021-12-11T03:49:30+00:00

His life will only get worse the longer he stays with her. Hopefully he grows enough of a backbone to dump her whore ass.

wigglyboiii · 2021-12-10T23:19:34+00:00

Fuck that. Learn to be happy without the bitch

No_Fap_is_My_Life · 2021-12-10T18:24:52+00:00

So the reason they gave for her to do this was that "oh well women aren't paid well enought even if they have a degree, so it's worth it"

And also that the guys shall shut up and not have a say in the matter... You can see the sadness of him in the video

I will post it on r/Nofap (yup more suitable there) but lol they don't take multimedia posts on weekends perhaps darn it :/

Buffbigw76 · 2021-12-11T01:48:00+00:00

Ditch the bitch. How toxic is this chick to think I’ll sell naked photos, and whatever else of myself, and expect my man to accept it?!

As much as it may have helped, The internet has ruined the civilized world.

BenSherman_LAPD · 2021-12-10T23:50:29+00:00

only fans is peak degeneracy of our generation tbh

Tumahab · 2021-12-10T22:44:28+00:00

If she wants to do an OnlyFans, that is really her choice, and she has every right to do it. But, his reaction is clearly understandable because if I'm understanding this right, she already started one without saying anything.

He should break up with her, not "only" because of the OnlyFans, but because there is clearly a lack of communication in this relationship on her end.

edit: Corrected my phrasing

Thunder_Kapro · 2021-12-11T03:31:07+00:00

she belongs to the streets

Euclidian1 · 2021-12-11T07:32:22+00:00

Lets face it, the only women interested in this space are both narcissists and fullonwhores. It takes a few years for most young guys to realize that they are the victims when in a relationship with one of these deranged perverts. The truth is, they are pond scum whose only useful purpose in life is that of masturbation fodder. If you fall for anything other than that, please do yourself a favor and seek a good therapist IMMEDIATELY! YOU ARE WASTING YOUR BEST YEARS!

Euclidian1 · 2021-12-11T07:36:58+00:00

Why do you say “not to be a dick”, when thats exactly what you are being? My life experience tells me that you are the type that is going to fall for what you think is a virtuous woman one day and find yourself in a deep pit of agony because of your overconfidence and bloated ego. Trust me son, your day is coming.

Wolfspeer01RA · 2021-12-11T09:58:16+00:00

I see the whole 'sex work is work' thing a lot, and honestly, I don't care to fight it. just say 'ok' let them do their thing. when they are in their 30's and can't find a partner when they do decide they want to settle.. I don't judge, do you... but I'd certainly never be caught dead with an OF person

Rol9x · 2021-12-11T11:34:02+00:00

I think the most important thing for men would be to stop using the term sex work. It's not sex work, it's prostitution and those who continue to use this euphemism actually are contributing to normalising a profession that is shameful and it's also destroying normal relationships.

And no, the person is not an incel, as he already has a gf. It's just another example of using the word as a mere insult. However, I think he has a lot of problems. The way he reacts is quite childish and shows he's got very little control over his mind and his feelings. And this is the reason why his gf does not respect him and I am quite certain that he is convinced he doesnt have any control over his life. It is quite a shame for a man to be in his situation. I hope he finds a way to change and improve his life.

coloradocaniac · 2021-12-11T03:13:06+00:00

I'll always support a guy standing up for himself.

ViciousKiwi_MoW · 2021-12-11T07:55:04+00:00

Serious question. Do women actually expect a guy they're going steady with to ask if she plans to/ will sell content of herself to strangers online?

JorTZD · 2021-12-11T08:40:25+00:00

I want to reach out to that man. Poor brother, another fallen soldier

__subarulyfe__ · 2021-12-11T01:27:33+00:00

I see no comment talking about incel stuff, just the fkn messy state of that flat lol

Traditional_Job2467 · 2021-12-11T03:36:40+00:00

But when he makes fictional women that are sexy somehow its gone too far. Double standard hypocrisy. Plus they are throwing that insult without knowing its origins and real definition

_PencilNpapeR_ · 2021-12-11T08:47:02+00:00

Here I am on the other side of things. My Ex suggested I do only fans and how much money I could make. He said it jokingly, but after a while I'm not sure if it was a joke anymore o.o

Stachbl13 · 2021-12-11T09:29:33+00:00

I mean, if they’d talked and he’d agreed… Sure. Relationships with extra sexual elements are not a one person thing. Communication is necessary. You wouldn’t walk to your SO with a whip and say, “yeah, I like whipping people, deal with it.” “I want to do extramarital stuff. You don’t get a choice.” Fuck off. If she just decided and didn’t bother to communicate, or take his worries seriously.

Estenar · 2021-12-11T10:22:08+00:00

Sorry, but if I realized, after some time, that the person I have been spending time with, is in relationship, is doing "sex work" (just imagine anything), behind my back, I would be mad too. If this is something that the girl wants to do, so be it, but be upfront and communicate. Imho, imagine if I just left the work and say "Oh, honey, feed me, you make more"....like what is this bullshit. I would not lash out like him, he sounds really broken, or at least, disoriented and that is why he sounds and scream like that.

Also, there is 95% chance, that you will never be successful making good money on onlyfans. The reality is that you will have bunch of your nudes stored in some onlyfans mega database where anyone can download it and you will make 1k bucks at most in a year. Yeah, just go to work, it is better. It is the same things people leaving jobs/school for streaming. It is fine and valid, but you know, most of you will never make a living out of it.

BlacksmithFew8447 · 2022-01-19T01:49:53+00:00

He sound like bitch that's why she didnt thi k to ask u. There screaming for what? Just kick her to the curve or pump her out get a bag and then dump her. No need to be that emotional

Born_from_a_porn · 2021-12-11T05:24:58+00:00

It's her choice

Cool-Studio1841 · 2021-12-11T03:43:10+00:00

How is this anti feminist??

So this guy's gf wants to do onlyfans, and he's sad coz she didn't tell him perhaps. Some comments were saying the boy is an INCEL if he doesn't want such a relationship, and he should just shut up and not have a say in the matter. Idk if this post fits here (more contx of the OGpost content comment

Crosspost "I feel his pain 😭" from /r/MadeMeCry:

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