i don’t understand why people go to great lengths to argue why their preferred lifestyle is better than anything that isn’t it.

your happiness isn't everyone else’s happiness. if you find happiness in a traditional/modern/other lifestyle then thats fine! but people come from different backgrounds and everyone’s lives unfold in different ways that would make someone prefer something over the other.

people know themselves better than you do. they know what would make them happy.

i also don’t know what to think about the fact that people like to bring biology into this. yes i acknowledge that biology exists and that it differentiates us from one another…but that is how far it goes. why should anyone change their life in a way that they KNOW will leave them unhappy just because „its what their biology intended for them“ ? not everyone wants to pursue a lifestyle almost entirely dictated by the gender they happened to be born with.