study proves: 50% of boys sexually assaulted by age 18 and 95% of perpetrators of boys and men are FEMALE

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You obviously didn't read the whole article. No surprises there...

[quote] As well, “a 2014 study of 284 men and boys in college and high school found that 43 percent reported being sexually coerced, with the majority of coercive incidents resulting in unwanted sexual intercourse. Of them, 95 percent reported only female perpetrators. The authors defined sexual coercion broadly, including verbal pressure such as nagging and begging, which, the authors acknowledge, increases prevalence dramatically.”

And “a 2012 study using data from the U. S. Census Bureau’s nationally representative National Epidemiologic Survey on Alcohol and Related Conditions found in a sample of 43,000 adults little difference in the sex of self-reported sexual perpetrators. Of those who affirmed that they had ‘ever forced someone to have sex with you against their will,’ 43.6 percent were female and 56.4 percent were male.”

And according to the paper, when female abusers are reported, they are less likely to be investigated, arrested, or punished compared to male perpetrators, who are regarded as more harmful.

This says up to 64,000 pedophiles are women… and 256,000 are male

And you revert to the typical feminist response by making it out to be some sort of competition... How typically feminist of you to behave that way...

Feminism:Equality, when convenient.

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I didn’t say that “men are more often victims of sexual assault and domestic violence”. As for domestic violence the research shows that it’s about 50/50. Research Erin Pizzey, the woman who started the first and currently the largest domestic violence shelter in the modern world, and what happened to her when her research led her to conclude that most domestic violence is reciprocal, and that women are equally as capable of violence as men. Other research backs up Pizzey.

Regarding sexual assault on males, I believe that a lot of it isn’t reported and, when it comes to light, is looked upon positively as long as it’s heterosexual experience. In the past few years men have come forward to speak about their experiences with babysitters and women in their neighborhood. And, we all hear about instances where adult female teachers engage in sex with minor males. The word “rape”‘is rarely used and the women usually receive prison sentences that aren’t comparable to what males receive when they are convicted of having sex with minor females.

Some years ago, I worked as an intake coordinator at a county mental health clinic. I was tapped to co-facilitate a men’s sex offender group and part of my responsibilities was to interview men in order to gauge their fitness for the group. In going through their personal histories quite a few of the men recounted that their first sexual experiences were as minors and often with female family members and/or family friends. Not all victims of sexual abuse become victimizers but a percentage do and it’s often ignored that they’re also victims. Especially when society sees a 13 year old being sexually active with an adult female as a sign of his undeniable masculinity.

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I’m not going to do all of the research for you but I’m assuming that you didn’t look into Erin Pizzey which would have been a good starting point for you. I wrote a research paper on DV for a women’s studies class when I was in college where I was able to find and cite evidence of DV being 50/50 on online sites. I no longer have access to that research paper but I’m sure you can find the research yourself if you’re really interested in doing so. One interesting bit of information I found while doing that research was that bisexual women reported higher incidents of DV when in lesbian relationships than in heterosexual ones. Definitely something that doesn’t fit into the narrative.

Reciprocity isn’t gender specific. But, anyone who’s honest about the issue knows that if a man physically defends himself against a physically abusive woman he will be considered to be in the wrong and will pay a penalty for his actions. Women abusing men is seen as either justified or comedic in our society and is rarely seen for what it unless the man is killed. And, even then, some people will try to justify the murder as self-defense.

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Be honest. You know that isn't true. You've been cited other studies before.

Domestic violence is not a very gendered issue. There may be some gendered nuance to the acts, but not much difference. The genderedness is almost entirely in how it is handled.

I suggest you read the Overview section of Erin Pizzey's wikipedia page or one of her books. She was the founder of Refuge, one of two UK DV organizations that had their funding diverted to nondiscriminatory organizations.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erin_Pizzey

She created the worlds first domestic violence shelters. After opening several for women in the UK, she suggested that men were being abused too (often by women staying in her shelters) and men needed a shelter too. She was then slandered, her kids were threatened, her dog was killed, bricks were thrown through her windows, and she was removed from the DV organization she founded (now known as Refuge which has just recently lost funding for harming male victims decades later). She fled the country for her childrens safety and became an outspoken DV activist and anti-feminist once they moved out on their own.

I wish we as a society look at gender neutral domestic violence data instead of studies looking for violence against women.

Almost 24% of all relationships had some violence, and half (49.7%) of those were reciprocally violent. In nonreciprocally violent relationships, women were the perpetrators in more than 70% of the cases.

Src: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1854883/

Behind a paywall I have archived around, but Harvard research that women are more likely than men in starting or escalating domestic violence and those women are by far the women most likely to be injured in DV. That doesn't say all women injured are perpetrators themselves, but it does indicate the problem goes beyond the feminist/pop culture model of "violence against women".

It includes:

Almost 25% of the people surveyed — 28% of women and 19% of men — said there was some violence in their relationship. Women admitted perpetrating more violence (25% versus 11%) as well as being victimized more by violence (19% versus 16%) than men did. According to both men and women, 50% of this violence was reciprocal, that is, involved both parties, and in those cases the woman was more likely to have been the first to strike.

Read that one again. #BelieveWomen.

Src: https://www.health.harvard.edu/newsletter_article/In_Brief_Domestic_violence_Not_always_one_sided

or

http://archive.is/7vuUz

This is a long meta study that shows we've known domestic violence isn't gendered for decades. It is good analysis. READ IT. It summarizes the results of hundreds of studies across decades. Not ONE study. LOTS.

https://connect.springerpub.com/content/sgrpa/1/3/332 or the whole study here http://www.menweb.org/battered/StrausV78.pdf

Popculture article -

https://thedailycounter.com/male-victims-of-domestic-violence-are-they-ignored/

Most domestic violence research today is research of "violence against women" from grants specifically looking for data on violence against women, not gender neutral research.

oncefa2 has posted lots stuff on this topic with academic references. I think the best two for references are...

https://old.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/f604hw/some_sources_on_the_severity_of_domestic_violence/

and

This one is interesting because usually as soon as I point out that DV isn't gendered someone explains it is because more women are killed by their partners than men. It wasn't always that way. Women got better options and stopped killing as much.

See this graph that shows the change between men and women killing their partners after women got DV services. I hear from feminists that the reason women needed the services is because men killed their partners far more. That wasn't true when the women got the services.

https://m.imgur.com/a/6Hx9dJt

more info in topic and comments here -

https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/e6hxvq/battered_husband_syndrome_as_an_explanation_for/

If the goal is to save women's lives rather than demonize men, it sure looks like we should be giving men better looking easily available options. But the feminists that run DV programs like Refuge don't want that.

I also suggest you look into the feminist Duluth Model of Domestic Violence Intervention which results in men being beaten by their wives being arrested more often than the perpetrator when they call the police for help.

Ellen Pence (The creator) herself has written,

"By determining that the need or desire for power was the motivating force behind battering, we created a conceptual framework that, in fact, did not fit the lived experience of many of the men and women we were working with. The DAIP staff [...] remained undaunted by the difference in our theory and the actual experiences of those we were working with [...] It was the cases themselves that created the chink in each of our theoretical suits of armor. Speaking for myself, I found that many of the men I interviewed did not seem to articulate a desire for power over their partner. Although I relentlessly took every opportunity to point out to men in the groups that they were so motivated and merely in denial, the fact that few men ever articulated such a desire went unnoticed by me and many of my coworkers. Eventually, we realized that we were finding what we had already predetermined to find."

It is obvious that YOU don't WANT to see that millions of men are victims of DV and there are only resources available to help thousands...

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Title	study proves: 50% of boys sexually assaulted by age 18 and 95% of perpetrators of boys and men are FEMALE
Author	Selfmade_3127
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Date	December 25, 2021 10:00 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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