Practical advice for young men.

UnconventionalXY · 2021-12-24T05:44:26+00:00

You left out the most important advice for young men, which strangely seems to be absent from most advice to young men: how to get your sexual needs met.

Most men have been conditioned by society to want a family that rolls together relationship, sex and children into one neat package with a woman, without explaining it is actually an indentured servitude contract with the woman calling all the shots; that men and women are very different creatures and the only commonality in sex will be when trying for a child the woman wants and for all other times he will be held hostage to her emotional state and what she wants only, including emotional upsets completely independent of the man; and that when children are involved the contract lasts for 20 years of resource provision for each child, which he can't break, but she can. The conditioning never makes other options available and any that do exist are actively suppressed or shrouded in fear.

I'll leave it up to others to suggest how a young man can best get his sexual needs met without becoming a victim of a woman.

2021-12-24T01:25:30+00:00

Excellent advice but I would also add independence, a lot of competent men underestimate themselves because of lack of social approval and due to the isolation caused from it they let themselves down, self reliance should be the number one priority and everything else you mentioned being the tools to achieve it.

gonewildman5 · 2021-12-24T03:20:10+00:00

7.) Be with a woman that shares the same values as you and does not have a troubled past (unless she's actively in treatment for it). Being with toxic women/wives will ruin you life. Trust me

mikesteane · 2021-12-24T03:37:22+00:00

Let's go a bit further here:

finance: Avoid wasting time on credit scores by not buying anything you cannot afford. Do not buy a car on credit. Do not buy an expensive car, just get one that is reliable. Do not run up a credit card debt. Do not buy things you don't need.

legal: don't talk to cops without a lawyer present if you are a suspect

technology: don't get caught up in the latest in new tech. Unless you are going to make a living programming there is not much point in learning how to do it. It is a skill that will quickly become obsolete. Learn life-long skills instead.

geriatricsoul · 2021-12-24T17:43:17+00:00

Ok seriously. The most important thing is practicing self love. This is ALWAYS overlooked. It sounds stupid, sometimes it feels stupid but you need to be able to respect and be ok with who you are. Because you're you forever.

Men are typically action based and I understand the tips in this thread. But come on guys let's slow the roll and remind ourselves what's actually important. Become comfortable with yourself so you can grow well.

Title	Practical advice for young men.
Author	mylazybutt
Upvotes	27
Comments	8
Date	December 24, 2021 12:45 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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