Been an avid lurker of trp for 2 years, and I've been applying it in real life for just over a year.

It has had its ups and downs. I'm currently spinning three plates consistently, and I've started to notice behavioral pattern in the past few weeks.

Shit tests are supposed to be met with A&A, and I've come to adopt amused mastery in day to day life. Most shit tests I pass, and my current plates barely shit test me - however coincidentally 2 of them just did, and I realized that all 3 of them respond in exactly the same way to A&A/amused mastery.

One of my plates keeps starting text conversations. When I apply amused mastery/teasing within casual conversation she tells me I'm always sarcastic... silly.

Now calling me silly wouldn't stand out as it kind of has a cute ring to it, but at exactly the same time I was in bed with my other plate who looked at my holiday photos. There was one where I was without shirt at a diner (it was 40C) and she said "cute photo... silly".

It got me thinking - and I made this post. I lift, am tall, hook up with more girls than any of my friends, yet every plate (2+ times sex, 8 girls)in the past three months has had a moment where she called me silly, weirdo, or met my sarcastic amused mastery or A&A with even more sarcasm.

Never has it been in a harmful way, always playful. Maybe I'm being paranoid, there isn't anything fundamentally wrong as I have sex with all of them still. Yet, is my attitude hurtful in the long run? Them feeling they can playfully call me silly could transfer into them stepping on me (although I'd break the plate instantly the moment I notice a loss of respect).

Tl;dr I've adopted RP theories in day to day life, mainly amused mastery and A&A. After a while it has been met with playful insults of every plate I have had in the past few months.

I'm noticing a pattern, is this harmful in the long run?