Right now I’m spinning about 2-3 plates but my main plate/fwb i spend a lot of time with and enjoy doing so. we act relationshippy, and I genuinely like her. she cooks for me, we enjoy the sex, she folds my clothes, massages me, we give each other a lot of affection all the time, and her father was tough on her raising her. she told me drunk last night she likes me. gets upset when she sees girls hitting me up or from my past, but she tries not to show it besides asking me once to clarify then lets it go. we’ve been talking for 2 months now. she talks about me to her family all the time even though i’ve never met them, and she met my parents through the phone recently. 1-2 weeks into talking we said we’ll exclusively fuck each other as she doesn’t sleep around like that (which i really liked but a lot of red pillers are saying most women lie about that stuff which is making me paranoid a bit). anyways I want to ltr her but a lot of people are saying to wait for the girl to bring up officially dating. However, we have a few more days until winter break so I’m thinking she might be waiting for me to bring it up, especially since my friend told me she is into me too when they had a conversation and might be waiting for me to bring it up because she thinks i’m a player and am not committed to her. we only live an hour away from each other at home, but I have some conditions I need her to accept and change if we end up being in an ltr (no guy friends, drunk without me, spring break trip, etc). the thing is I feel like I need to wait for her to ask me in order to bring up these conditions and so that the power is in my hands. If i ask her i won’t be able to lay the conditions without being insecure and me asking her will make her have leverage in power. I am not sure what to do here as I also think she’s waiting for me to bring it up before break.