I hope some people can help me. Yes we are not blackpillers but the redpill is still related to it. Blackpillers believe that "only looks matter?" Do they have a point?

themostgianthorse · 2021-12-22T23:09:45+00:00

We can circle jerk it all day but it’s going to boil down to playing the best hand with the cards you’ve been dealt.

We get there by doing the work.

goneaway2thewind · 2021-12-22T23:40:49+00:00

I'm not gonna bullshit you. In some way you have to compensate if you are dealing with those odds. Luckily, women have a few different desires that one can appeal to

IntelligenceLtd · 2021-12-23T02:56:12+00:00

This is a pointless debate to have on this sub as its not what its about and even if it was its a generally pointless question because yes, maybe but also no, so what as has been said its about the cards youve been dealt here go to r/PurplePillDebate if you want tedious incel vs fds flamewars over this kind of bullshit.

luciano1505 · 2021-12-24T11:47:13+00:00

Its not as over as many would think, and the reason for this is that women are incredibly contextual with their sexuality.

You can see all kinds of videos with below average looking guys who aren’t tall, go to a party or popular street and flirt with girls on camera and get kisses, their number, or even walk away with the girl.

And it’s because they’re giving off purely sexual vibes allowing for the girl to be sexual (because of the context). The psychology here is provider vs lover. You want to be the lover not the provider.

Looks play a bigger role when the context is harder. Approaching a girl outside of any sexual context is where looks matters the most. But honestly you can look pretty below avg and still take home girls from night clubs and parties if you give off a DGAF attitude and flirtatious vibe.

In general though, as long as you reach a girls baseline level of attraction, you have a chance. The more attracted she is to you the easier it is.

I know that many will say that women are only attracted to looks but imo they will give it up to any guy given the right context. A display of strength is what makes them horny, whether it is mental or physical. Here is the caveat, LOOKS is what makes them perceive strength. They value height, muscularity, and dimorphic features because it makes you look like you can beat the shit out of other men, even if it’s untrue. Looks essentially fraud strength (which is what makes women horny). Even if you’re a massive individual with a strong jawline, you can still be a pussy and turn women off with WEAK behaviors.

It’s actually the reason why they put up barriers against shorter or weaker looking men. These men can still have sex with women, but in the females brain they perceive him (visually) as incapable. The way you sway them is with your behavior (because you’re displaying strength).

Looks fraud or “halo” strength, whereas behavior proves it. All about context with women

luciano1505 · 2021-12-24T11:52:03+00:00

Read my previous comment and honestly you’ll realize why you shouldn’t take women too serious when it comes to looks lol.

They’ll think a 6’4 guy is more capable and could beat the shit out of a 5’10 Mike Tyson because he’s stretched a few more inches vertically.

Looks can only fraud masculinity, behavior is what seals the deal with women. Its why they can be incredibly attracted to a tall, muscular, and handsome man but if he acts like a pussy they will be disgusted.

His looks that frauded his masculinity/strength didn’t actually line up with his behaviors. Meaning that the girl no longer sees him as a capable mate.

Meloxian · 2021-12-24T02:13:25+00:00

Most people are pretty average. Most people through history were pretty average. Most people through history have successfully reproduced.

You’re lucky. You’re at a time where you have access to the internet - you can improve, you can learn etc. At an unprecedented rate. This is also a time toward American societal collapse. Pussy is easier than ever before.

If you do all the sidebar shit. You’re going to be better than most other guys. And hypergamy will work in your favor.

You’ll never be lebron with your athleticism, doesn’t mean you can’t work on your 3pt shot and become steph curry.

luciano1505 · 2021-12-24T11:55:41+00:00

Also one last thing.

The last part of your post applies to all men no matter your physical stats.

Women are incapable of loving men unconditionally in the way that men expect. It’s literally one of the iron rules of the redpill and its backed by evolution/biology.

Women don’t necessarily fall in “love” for the same reasons men do. Its not unconditional. The most you get is chemical attachment akin to what a drug addict experiences.

You giving them oxytocin is what makes them “love” you. They are not biologically designed to be romantic in the way that men are. It’s why you shouldn’t take women so seriously. The only person who will love you for you is yourself and strong male friends. Even mother’s love is a product of heavy oxytocin exposure from the birthing process

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