Is because of the failure association with others just like them. Their failures become yours and suddenly you have an even worse outlook on live but it's true, statistics don't lie. Statistics are fear incarnate that most will never fight againts fear.Yes you get used to the pain and loneliness it feels comforting and you know of it you've been on this road before so you'll stay locked in place.

Ok so if i share characteristics with some guy on the internet ( same height, same job type,same salary same body type,same lifestyle a dead one, same routines, no social circle,etc...) and it's logical even without having emotions involved i am that guy do you get it? I am that guy.I'm pretty sure most of these horrible stories with dating and women are not lies for dramatic effect they are the lives of people, people who should have had a chance but no.. So if i read something horrible it takes a chunk of damage on my self-esteem armor little by little until there is nothing left but what most call and empty husk of a man, a shell of his former self.Sure some become simps but i would say most don't they become numb and empty.

Well you could say that: ,,just try bro, that's his life not yours stop comparing and go and live your chances'' that's a great but..statistics show that 9 out of 10 times you will fail and just like that it's proven right every time. I have that metabolism that works againts me and a rought upbringing + poverty ( i wish poor people could not get fat atleast) so i can't loose weight not like normal people and i don't have money so all that bullshit about personality and losing weight going to gym i can't really do, it's genetics,biology can't fight againts that. So why try? to become of collector yourself of failures? of i told you so's? what's the point? experience no because experience only matters if you can learn and have the chance to do it again most average men don't have that chance and they don't learn.

Others will simply say i'm not gonna bother with that dating is ruined apps all that shit women are this and that and i'm not gonna bother i don't know i don't want to know i'll focus on my video games, some hobbies, my dog and my job because most average men have jobs not careers.And that is the truth. It's a shame that many relationships never had the chance to even begin because of women = it never began, it's over before it even began

That's why more and more average men will never try, not really though and they will go their own way however they can in this failed society. Shame on you guys for destroying the world with social media and dating apps,it could have been different much much different but no, well ok then.

I will not become a collector of failures, have on the shelf of my mind hundreds of ,,no sorry not interested'' ,,sorry i have a boyfriend'' ,,uhhh... you're gross'' ...... just to sit there rotting my mind and causing mental damage for what? because that's life ? Ok dude you go do that i'm gonna go somewhere else.