I preface this by saying, I'm not good looking.

Anyways, in college I never dated, I then got plastic surgery to go from super ugly to acceptably ugly. I then leveraged my 'high paying' job, and dated a big, hooked up a bit. However I had to put in much more effort than my good looking friends to achieve these things. Additionally, since the best thing I had to offer was my money, these women later left when they found someone richer.

Right now I mainly 'date' through sugar babies. Stuff where it's like, $500 for sex with a really attractive college student.

Because of these arrangements, I am kind of jaded, always thinking about 'how women only care about money', etc. But the reality is, if I was good looking, I would be able to attract women who DON'T need me for my resources. AKA, women who are happier, less toxic, etc. And if that were the case, I wouldn't be on these forums.

I guess I have two ways I can go about life.

  1. If you make six figures (which I do), you'll be able to afford $500 for sex, but it's still an expense you have to think about. I guess I could try to aim for seven figs, in which case hooking up with attractive sugar babies will just feel like a cup of coffee to me. When I was in some European countries, where sex with 10/10s was $150, tbh I was happier. I felt like I had a lot more options in regards to dating. And these women would also hang out with me outside of sex, for free, so it felt like a normal dating relationship. They would also follow me on IG and we could share 'stories' of each other, and obviously that helped with social proof A LOT. Sometimes if I was close with them I would even hookup without a condom, which was an ego boost (we both got tested).

  2. Get another surgery, and then date a girl who comes from a well off background. This ensures that she likes me NOT because of my money. Of course I will still try to maximize and reach 7 figs salary (it's a personal goal of mine). But yeah, would be cool to have a wholesome relationship with a girl.

I am jaded because reality is you are paying for pussy in some way regardless. But yeah. Just my thoughts.