I am a 30M and I consider myself a late bloomer. I’ve gone on plenty of dates with women and had a few relationships. But growing up I was very shy and awkward. I ruin any chances when girls try to talk to me. The rp community says that women only want to be with “alpha males” or chad in their prime and then settle for nice guys or providers as they get older. They say to take advantage of them for being treated unfairly before. Girls now expect you to have a good career, nice car, and take them to fancy restaurants. When they were younger they were ok with a guy with who just partied, no car, and didn’t even take them out on dates. I knew like guys this who were still able to get women. I don’t take any rp advice too seriously and never needed to use it to get dates but it does make me a little bitter . These women probably wouldn’t have given me a chance before, but now I’m supposed live to there standards because they had there fun and want something more serious now. Yet if I judge there past I look like the bad guy.