2 shit tests I get often, how to pass them?

So, usually when I'm out in a bar chicks will open with with one of the following 2 shit tests:

1.They will ask: "Are you a gangster?" (My look is very urban/hip hop, I usually wear a cap)

or

2.They will take the cap of my head, causing me to chase them for it.

I get the first one more often than the second.

I didn't realise I was being shit tested until I unplugged.

I'm curious as to what the best response two these tests would be. Any advice is much appreciated.