Dear females of r/antifeminists...

Made-of-magic- · 2022-02-12T20:28:53+00:00

I was never called a pick me. But I was called a traitor of my gender and even a man by some feminists online. This because in both situations I didn't agree with them. Feminists act like they want equality but they refuse to accept the fact that women can and are anti feminists.

"Pick Me" is a term that feminists use to disguise their hate against other women. They pretend they are worried for those women. Because they think those women just want men to think they are cool and sexy. When in reality they are oppressed women.

Feminists will only take you serious if you agree with anything they say and also if you show hate against men. For them you can't support equality and defend men's rights. In the feminism world those two will never coexist.

Don't bother arguing with feminists. Even if they want a "mature trade of opinions". People who use name calling instead of arguments aren't mature.

Visible_Property_505 · 2022-02-12T19:27:09+00:00

Before getting named as "pick me's" they firstly get think of as if it's a man lying about being a woman online....

When the feminists come to know that it is indeed a girl, and she's an antifeminist, and that her feminist lies won't work.... She labels her a Pick me

Probably because being an Anti-feminist woman attracts a lot of good guys to care for the girl and respect her... Which feminists won't ever get lol.....

(Although I have lately seen some anti-work antifeminist women here, yup idk how they exist, I feel bad though..., They are kinda those who wanna be Tradwives, mainly religious type, nope I don't support such women, I want women to work and be independent, but not by demolishing men by being feminist bitches...)

Work in the army and work in Science, double the force, double the pace...

buggygirl02 · 2022-02-16T13:37:11+00:00

Just recently saw this subreddit....I've seen more simps call me out for supporting traditional gender roles than feminists so far

They act like all women should be worshipped like queens and when I'm like nah, they act like I need to be educated or something. It's annoying af.

Round-Remove-544 · 2022-02-16T19:20:40+00:00

Okay not to be rude but I've been seeing some crazy definitions of "pick me girl." Like the original definition was actually to call out women who have no issue putting other women down for their benefit. Feel free to look into it, I could be wrong but the few times I thought someone was acting like a pick-me was when they were very clearly putting me down for my interests in the hopes of attracting the attention of the men in our group. And it works in both directions. I'm sure some here have heard of female gamers who lean into the toxicity of the culture and put down other women for "only pretending to be into gaming because of their boyfriend." But what about those who put down women for "not cooking all their meals and choosing to spit the chores". These people do exist and as I said in a another comment, they make it seem like all women catty, hateful and insecure. Once again, not trying to call anyone out but I've seen this word be changed and morphed everywhere and I'm super tired of it.

AbsoluteSereniti · 2022-02-13T21:57:38+00:00

Pick me girl is just what ugly girls call attractive girls. Might as well take it as a compliment. Better than being a fds whale.

akihonj · 2022-02-12T21:23:38+00:00

Not a woman, I think by now I've said enough that most in this sub know that but I find then as a man the term pick me extremely funny.

It's really, in my view, not the burn feminists think it is, if they do want to call an anti-feminist a pick me then fine, there's a very good reason why traditional, masculine men pick these women, it's usually because those women aren't horrid, toxic, angry, mentally unstable feminists.

Thamashakku · 2022-02-13T09:32:44+00:00

Am surprised to see women that are anti feminists. Here in kerala which is a state in India(don't know about whole of India) most women are either feminists or atleast support all feminists including the radical ones now. You guys over there are lucky that there are atleast some good women hehe.

Drazer_Pride · 2022-02-13T18:49:10+00:00

The first and last time I was called with this weird term was in this sub actually by some ultra modern feminist girl who possibly came here to engage with unnecessary arguments with the people here, without mercy for them, despite they've been through hurtful moments.

The post was about a dress which was abnormally revealing and reveals also the lower part of the bust. The story behind it is that the girl broke up with her boyfriend because he was against her wearing that for a clubbing night with friends.

I wrote a comment back then expressing myself for this regrettable situation and that I'd have chosen a plain outfit. And that feminist modern girl said, what a pick me comment. But I wasn't shamed. I am proud to be member of this sub opposing toxic ultra modernity and sticking to the morality.

I wish you all the best.

Title	Dear females of r/antifeminists...
Author	baneyney07
Upvotes	30
Comments	55
Date	February 12, 2022 3:07 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/AntiFeminists
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