I read below article referenced in sidebar. I understand shit tests now. https://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/

What are ways to develop wit? How should I become more playful? I have been told numerous times that I look serious. What are ways to take yourself less seriously ?

One thing I noticed is if I say something funny and other person doesn't get my joke I feel bad or they feel weird. How to not come off as weirdo ?