plates and handling them

spootsnoopy · 2016-08-30T03:43:50+00:00

This is pretty common amongst plates.

One thing I do is I say that like women have their rules, such as no sex on first date etc, I have my own rule, which is that I never "girlfriend" a girl unless it has been at least 3 months. She may accept this, she may complain. But if you hold frame and be firm you be fine.

This is easy for me to say because it is actually the truth too, not something I make up just to shut her up.

Remember that you not wanting to commit to her is part of the reason she wants you. For example back in my blue pill days I once had a girl I was fucking practically beg me for commitment for an hour, borderline crying. I broke frame and said yes. 5 minutes later she said she wasn't sure if that's what she wants and then stopped speaking to me. They want what they can't have. Dangle it in front of them but don't let them have it

oldsoulkt · 2016-08-30T03:37:54+00:00

Read the sidebar. There is a post about "The Talk". And handling/managing plates.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2016-08-30T09:00:30+00:00

Worried about fucking things up?

Sounds like she's already doing a handy job of fucking things up for you. Maybe you should be more concerned about that......

Title	plates and handling them
Author	JvSOUL
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	August 30, 2016 2:43 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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