I work at a restaurant. The only two male servers under 40 (they're 22 and 26) are gym bros. They dislike me (22), they HATE my coworker (31F), and they both bully my other coworker (18F). They are the only two male servers under 45. Me and my 31 yr old coworker talked tonight about why they treat us that way. Both of them flirt, talk Abt inappropriate shit, and general behave oddly toward our teenage coworkers. Especially one who looks far younger than she is. My coworkers who we'll call Sarah and Jane (Sarah 31, Jane 18), have noticed this. It's weird. How on top of the teens they are, but when it comes to the three of us, who are very very outspoken (stand up for ourselves etc.) They are offstandish and weird. They don't feel attraction to women who are even semi confident. Sarah and one of those male servers, let's call him Paul, got into a fight over him now understanding how sections work and he threatened her to he face, our managers didn't believe it. Both of them are lazy and only flirt with the underage girls, the second server, let's call him Gage, hit an underage expo with a rag on the ass the other day. My point is men like them, small egos, gym addicts, tinder frequenters, cannot handle confident women or even women their own age (I'm within 0-3 years of each of them). They want someone who won't question them. Who will stroke their ego. It's sick to see up close. I've complained multiple times to management but they won't do shit bc we are "short staffed".