I'm on a vicious cold streak. Since May, I've gone on 27 POF and OKC first dates. Only 3 bangs, 1 BJ, and 5 second dates overall (4 from girls I had sex/BJ). Some I don't bother asking out on second dates. Most I'll ask out again and they decline.

I'm also a minority going mostly for girls outside my race. I think the problem is these girls like me when they're in the moment because they see me as a cool, charming guy.

But when I text them two days later, they're in a much different emotional state. Their logical side takes over. So they start overanalyzing. Can I go out with that "brown guy" again? What will my friends think? Will my family approve?

And then she logs back on POF/OKC and sees messages from tall white guys who conform to the "ideal boyfriend" archetype. So when I try to follow up, she flakes or gives me radio silence because although she had a good time, she's not taking me seriously as boyfriend material.

I have a tall white buddy in my town who plays this game online - acts like a good boyfriend caliber guy, gets girls in bed on dates 2 or 3, then disappears as they start pushing for a relationship. I can't play this game because most girls don't consider me boyfriend material in the first place.

I think the only way for me (and other minorities) to succeed is to go for broke and always try to bang online girls on the first date.

I need to be that one-off "exotic" dark sexy stranger she banged that one night that her friends or family will never find out about.

I need to be that guy she fucked because she's never done a "dark guy" before and wanted to try one for one night to see what it was like.

Thoughts?