I was just having this thought after another failed attempt at “putting myself out there”. You know, it’s weird, sometimes I do feel like I’d love a boyfriend and I used to feel like I was missing out on that couple life, and things couples do. Then I scrolled through some pictures and memories and upcoming things I have going on and I’m like…why would I want someone to come in and potentially ruin me mentally, physically and/or emotionally and add literally nothing to my life? Because that’s exactly what every single experience dating (scrotes) has brought me.Why was I even worried about this? I have a very high/important position working in healthcare, I graduated with highest honors, I’ve travelled the world by myself, I like my friends, I like my space, my time, my stuff, my dog. I really just feel like I was always brainwashed into thinking I was worthless unless someone else found me worthy. No. And I know the scrotes that stalk this sub because they hate women and have shrimp dicks are gonna be like “look at her burh she probably just can’t attract anyone/is trying to convince herself she’s fine”. But no, I am fine. I have plenty of male interest. I “put myself out there” and got so many men to shower me with attention, but from LVM? Nah. I don’t want it. I don’t need it.