Hi there,

I just married my amazing husband, he is a trust worthy and so nice. Unfortunately he’s very secretive. When I ask him “who you went with”, he would usually not answer me or he would give me a general answer. Plus, we have a shared premium YouTube account but he started hiding the history and the searched keywords. Another example, he buys stuff from the supermarket but sometimes he hides them from me or avoid trying to tell me. And there’s a situation where he asked me to iMassged him instead of text him on WhatsApp since it’s more reachable to him, but when I tried to use iMassage, my messages would go only as an SMS, so he told me iMessage is having an issue (which is not true) - for the people who don’t know iMessage, it tells the sender whether the recipient read the message or not, unlike SMS - and btw when he texts someone he doesn’t hide the screen from me. But he is very secretive and I suspected he would have a small lies sometimes. I want to know the best way to handle this situation.

Thank you