At the end i will mention a blog to kick start your detox.

Some youtube videos that make a lot of sense will also be linked at the end.

There are some concepts discussed as we go along and i will mention some youtube links alongside.

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When dealing with redpill you’re not dealing with a sub Reddit or some information , you are dealing with your own insecurity and paranoia (exaggerated and triggered)by the redpill

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So don’t be hard on yourself because you are fighting with yourself when fighting against trp.

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Be smart and clever and think in the past when you were blocking your own growth, what did you do , you were certainly not fighting with yourself. Empathy is the way out.

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Redpill is the biggest cope of all times and here’s how to deal with it.

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Redpill is a huge mental masturbation. It’s a one way ticket to staying in your head all the time, over analysing , being a cynic , having trust issues, seeing ghosts where there are none.

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The funny part: its not trp to blame, its us.

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By us , i mean its human nature. I will explain it further real soon in the next paragraph.

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Trp is a like a manual which states, all the things could go wrong.

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Now what it skips is , all the stuff that could go right. Because its hard to build a cult based on that.

Only emotionally outrageous content gets views and attracts (and keeps) its members.

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Besides i would like to ask our dear redpillers, what’s so special with women.

Aren’t humans flawed by nature, why are you making women so special , people to be dealt with separately.

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For fucks sake , there are YouTubers preaching this knowledge of “female nature” like its some necessary education to be passed on to the “modern” supposedly “feminine” men.

Why are you grown ass adults acting like bunch of teenagers (maybe a lot of you actually are in you teens) who are leg pulling the girls.

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You know what trp actually is , a proof that humans sometimes do horrible things (yes men and women). But this is mundane truth right? Something you wouldn’t fixate on because its pointless. I mean what are you to do with such a fact.

But subtract mend from this equation , amplify women by coining the term “female nature” and let the twats roll in.

It’s a cult of misogynist nothing more. Some of these men even take pride in being misogynist showering their need for approval for being special.

It’s a very futile and pathetic exercise.

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When i first came across trp i was astonished, i felt like i found a gem of some hidden information, little did i know that i was just astonished by something already known ie “people sometimes do horrible stuff”

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Redpill markets itself by blaming women when in reality doing selfish and horrible stuff is human nature.

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Let me define trp in a single sentence : sometimes , shit happen, bad cruel painful heart breaking shit, trp tells you how and why it happens.

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What people consuming this stuff miss is , why would you wanna know all this. If someone does you bad , you fucking move on , not hear some ass crack on youtube explain it to you. I mean what information does he have to your particular context.

Learn to challenge your assumptions and judgements. That’s psychological growth.

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Your insecurities get associated with this knowledge.

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When you are constantly reading this stuff , you get a conformation bias and start seeing threat where there is none.

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This is human response to such information as trp.

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Trp is not wanting to make you paranoid (or at least they try to make you think so)but its standard to be paranoid reading such stuff out of conformation biases (google it , real short and simple)

Then again if you are not paranoid, how will they sell you courses or make you watch their youtube videos.

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Why is it so addicting ?

It is addicting because your brain perceives it as something that can keep you safe from heartbreaks and cheating.

Trp hijacks your evolutionary need to be certain.

The cost of such certainty is fanaticism ,limited beliefs , conformational biases and stunted psychological growth

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How to deal with it?

Your problem isnt trp as such. It’s your changed attitude because of it. The bitterness that comes with such knowledge, the twisted beliefs it brings about in you.

One of the tools that can help is mindfulness via meditation

Anger towards it is not a solution , trp is literally tied to the part of your brain that controls fight and flight, paranoia and your well being and security.

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Fighting with trp is like fighting with your impulse to be safe and secure, to add fuel to this fire, trp revolves around sex , amygdala lights up at the thought of sex (opposite gender, women in this case) and sex being such basic need for humans , the impulses related to it are strong.

Before trp you food to have the knowledge to convert those feelings into abstract thoughts so you didn’t feed into these impulses.

But now that you have read all these theories , you keep ruminating because you have the ideas in your herald that feed those impulses related to insecurity and sex.

Don’t fight it . It will create shadow in your psychology

Watch this : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tIoJhqnOc0M

Think of trp as an annoying paranoid friend always reminding you what could go wrong. Over analysing , always giving you suggestions , judgements.

The only solution?

Accept it.

Accept that there’s a lot wrong with the world and up until now you’ve chosen to see the good. Trp forced you to see the bad and its alright.

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It’s not going anywhere because it’s not an information any more, its tied to your biology of cynicism. Once a cynic, how does one lower the cynicism , certainly not by fighting it (it will only grow stronger ) but by keeping an open mind and indulging in loving activities that contradicts the limiting beleifs redpill has instilled in you.

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Trp brands itself as the hidden truth but in reality if you have a solid sense of self , it doesn’t matter what happens to you , you might grieve for a moment but you will be alright.

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You don’t need a manual to live your life.

It’s like living in a jail.

That’s what these redpillers want to do with you.

They want to lock you up in the cage of insecurities and limiting beliefs and them rise up posing as your messiahs with their “truths”.

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Although it’s just information and does not support misogyny , if it starts feelings of misogyny in you without anything bad happening to you, it is misogynist material.

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The irony is if you’re angry at it and accept it(the only way) and move on with your life , some redpillers would term this as you being fully redpilled because you have entered the stage if acceptance. I’m not sure if this is the case.

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Here’s another answer i copied from a chat i had with a redpiller who seemed to get it :

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“Accepting and acknowledging you have parts to you, some which are fully formed and some that are not so much but each having a deeply rooted belief - a hook which causes you to act upon that belief, and then deconditioning yourself from acting upon that belief slowly but surely. Reconnecting with your true feelings and then seeing if those feelings are grounded in reality or are coming from some misguided belief which was bestowed upon you by your surrounding or you developed as a results of your life circumstances . After that accept that belief without judgement and accept shame that comes with it, slowly get rid of toxic shame and start forming new beliefs. Then no matter how hard it is keep acting on those new beliefs. The road will be hard and you will fail many times probably, but grounding yourself back to the state in which you have to be and then following it again and again is the way.”

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Bottom line : its a bunch of bs about what’s wrong with women. And it’d be childish to hang onto it. Aren’t men Assholes? Some are.

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REDPILL IS A CULT OF SELF FULFILLING PROPHECY OF HURT MEN WHO INSTEAD OF MOVING ON IN THEIR LIFE , ARE EATING THEIR OWN SHIT, REPEATING SAME PATTERNS OF BEHAVIOUR THROGH CONFORMATION BIAS, STICKING TO CERTAINTY , THE BIGGEST PSYCHOLOGICAL WEAKNESS THAT IS THE END TO ALL GROWTH.

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THE REDPILLERS YOUTUBERS AND EVEN TOP POSTERS ON THE SUB DONT LIVE WHAT THEY PREACH. Thats where the biggest disconnect is.

BIGGEST IRONY OF ALL , WHAT THEIR DOING IS TOTALLY OPPOSITE TO WHAT AN ALPHA (excuse me for the use of this cowardly word , I just wanna give these redpillers a taste of their own medicine) THEY SO SUCK UP TO WOULD DO.

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A REAL ALPHA (EXCUSE ME AGAIN) WOULD NEVER STICK TO A SUB OR A SET OF PRINCIPLES TO LIVE THIS LIFE.

A REAL ALPHA (*coughs and says sorry ) DOESNT HAVE EGO THE SIZE OF A MOUNTAIN WHO CANT WITHSTAND THE SMALLEST CRITICISM

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A REAL ALPHA( i promise this is the last alpha) would have the balls to accept he is being a misogynist not because hes been hurt , but because he isn’t moving on form what happened to him , not taking the responsibility to move his life in a better direction besides what wrong she did to him.

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You redpillers are scared af, needy of validation and your whole life revolves around girls. No one deserves such a pathetic life.

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Read this blog.

https://markmanson.net/limiting-beliefs

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A post from trp showing where people mess up with the redpill. This has to be the most valuable trp post.

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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/omnz96/the_most_imporant_thing_to_have/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

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TRP might claim it doesnt wish to make men needy misogynist etc but with such an information and cult formation , its hard to not fall into our instinctual impulses.

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YouTube links for unbiased views on the redpill , not completely disowning the trp but showing both positives and negatives.

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  1. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lBBkXOZCQ9E
  2. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TBJXBTV_aQ8&t=398s
  3. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_vp8k8aKWX8

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