I'm probably going to have to redo my maths exam on monday, because I was too fucking lazy to study enough. I'm not as good looking as I could be, because for years and years I've been too lazy to work out. It's my own fault I was a virgin until 21, because I was a fucking pussy and never bothered to improved and change what I was doing.

What I'm trying to say here is this: Whatever happens to you, it's your own fault.

  • Did your wife leave you? Your fault! You weren't attractive enough to her anymore.

  • Did you get beat up by some thugs on the street? Your fault! Why were you in a dangerous area and why didn't you look threatening to them or know how to defend yourself?

  • Do you look like shit? Your fault! Why didn't you work out and eat healthy?

  • You can't get sex and every women friendszones you? Your fault! You're a pussy and pedestalize women. You don't have a clue about how attraction works.

You have to accept that the world behaves in a certain way, which you can't change. All you can do is react accordingly. Look at this example from today: http://redditlog.com/snapshots/204761

Who's to blame here? The kid? No, it's the parents. Of course that kid is an A-grade asshole, but it's still all the parents' fault. They raised the child. They knew he was an asshole, but still treated him like their little angel. The point is: The world is bad. You can either accept that and work with it, or you don't, and bad shit will happen to you.

The kid is just part of that bad reality. If you know it exists, yet don't do anything about it, you're to blame because you're stupid. If you don't know that life is that way, you're still to blame because you're blind.

One of the biggest improvements I've made in my life, was taking responsibility for my actions. I started blaming myself for everything. (If a tornado hits your house, it's still probably your fault because you knew that you were moving to a dangerous area.) If you take responsibility for your actions, you're on your way to become a powerful person, because if you're responsible for everything that happens, that means that you can influence and change everything that happens, too.

Buddhism has some related thoughts:

“Watch your thoughts, they become words;

watch your words, they become actions;

watch your actions, they become habits;

watch your habits, they become character;

watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.”

That single thought, that you're responsible for everything that happens, is the beginning. This thought can shape your entire life. Buddha supposedly said: "It is your mind that creates this world." I believe this is what he meant.

Tl;Dr: Fuck you, this shit can change your life, fucking read it.