Hot Take: The way someone dresses isn't grounds for you to comment on their body. I get the point of this sub, but your thought process on the subject is abhorrent.
Seeing as i did read it, he was clearly saying that if you dress a certain way, you should expect a certain type of reaction from people, if you don't want that reaction, don't dress that way,
kinda like dressing like a clown and then being mad when people don't take you seriously.
I honestly think you did not read the comment correctly and went off at the mouth too soon, but judging by your childish as hell response, i'm gonna take a wild guess and say that you probably are just here to stir shit, regardless of what was actually said, he doesn't agree with you, so he must be "DA ENEMIEE"
Bless your heart, you really are an idiot, if you can't grasp the concept of taking responsibility for the outcome of putting yourself into bad situations and eviroments, you are just dumb, that is like basic advice you get from people growing up, if you hang around gangs and drug dealers, and end up in jail, it is YOUR FAULT, not the other guy, not the cops, not "the system" it is your fault by putting yourself in a situation or enviroment for that to happed in the first place.
Ah yes, because anyone who has made a comments about a woman's body(like every college guy on earth) goes straight into the rapist category, solid logic their buddy.
It's kinda like driving without a seatbelt, would it be better if car crashes didn't happen? Of course, but if you die cause you weren't wearing a seatbelt, is it kinda your fault? Of course, i only hear this argument used to defend woman's behavior, if i as a man walk around a slum area at night dressed to the nines with a rolex on, and get robbed, is it bad? Yes, am i also an idiot for doing that? Also yes, this really isn't rocket science, it's pretty simple logic.
don't want to get shot at? Don't sign up for the military,
don't want to work? Don't get a job,
you literally sign up for getting attention, when you dress provocatively, you don't get to pick and choose the attention you get, if you don't want attention, then don't dress nice, you'll be invisible to all men, problem solved, i don't know a single woman who does not judge a man by the way he dresses, stop your double standard crap, it's laughable.
No, but it increases the chances, i think our fundemental issue, is that you are arguing about they way things should be, and i am arguing the best way to act knowing the way things are, does complaining about how things should be is futile, better to accept how things are, and take caution accordingly.
We are talking about comments, just words, not rape "sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt me" you should expect certain comments to be made if you dress a certain way, it's basic common sense, you can't expect everyone else to bend to your will, and only say what you want, you just gotta brush it off.
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Hot Take: The way someone dresses isn't grounds for you to comment on their body. I get the point of this sub, but your thought process on the subject is abhorrent.
Major Incel energy.
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Looks like somebody didn't read his comment correctly.
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Seeing as i did read it, he was clearly saying that if you dress a certain way, you should expect a certain type of reaction from people, if you don't want that reaction, don't dress that way,
kinda like dressing like a clown and then being mad when people don't take you seriously.
I honestly think you did not read the comment correctly and went off at the mouth too soon, but judging by your childish as hell response, i'm gonna take a wild guess and say that you probably are just here to stir shit, regardless of what was actually said, he doesn't agree with you, so he must be "DA ENEMIEE"
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Bless your heart, you really are an idiot, if you can't grasp the concept of taking responsibility for the outcome of putting yourself into bad situations and eviroments, you are just dumb, that is like basic advice you get from people growing up, if you hang around gangs and drug dealers, and end up in jail, it is YOUR FAULT, not the other guy, not the cops, not "the system" it is your fault by putting yourself in a situation or enviroment for that to happed in the first place.
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Ah yes, because anyone who has made a comments about a woman's body(like every college guy on earth) goes straight into the rapist category, solid logic their buddy.
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It's kinda like driving without a seatbelt, would it be better if car crashes didn't happen? Of course, but if you die cause you weren't wearing a seatbelt, is it kinda your fault? Of course, i only hear this argument used to defend woman's behavior, if i as a man walk around a slum area at night dressed to the nines with a rolex on, and get robbed, is it bad? Yes, am i also an idiot for doing that? Also yes, this really isn't rocket science, it's pretty simple logic.
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Yes... don't want to be robbed?
Don't go to sketchy areas,
don't want to get shot at? Don't sign up for the military,
don't want to work? Don't get a job,
you literally sign up for getting attention, when you dress provocatively, you don't get to pick and choose the attention you get, if you don't want attention, then don't dress nice, you'll be invisible to all men, problem solved, i don't know a single woman who does not judge a man by the way he dresses, stop your double standard crap, it's laughable.
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No, but it increases the chances, i think our fundemental issue, is that you are arguing about they way things should be, and i am arguing the best way to act knowing the way things are, does complaining about how things should be is futile, better to accept how things are, and take caution accordingly.
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We are talking about comments, just words, not rape "sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt me" you should expect certain comments to be made if you dress a certain way, it's basic common sense, you can't expect everyone else to bend to your will, and only say what you want, you just gotta brush it off.
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