I have been going to clubs solo for about 3 months now because I have more acquaintances than friends. Keep in mind I am by no means a great dancer and not fully redpilled. I want to share with you something which worked for me when trying to dance with girls.
You should already be fucking dancing your ass off on the dance floor and enjoy the hell out of it. Trust me, girls notice when you are having fun or not. If it looks like you are fun to be around, girls will start moving towards you to dance. Another way is to move close to a girl with whom you have made eye contact and start dancing while extending your hand towards her. Most of the time, they will reciprocate and grab your hand. At this moment you can spin her around and keep on dancing.
One way I use to make girls comfortable enough to dance with me is to cheer them up on the dance floor. I do this by conveying I am truly impressed by their dancing skills (something like this impressed look). Most of the time, I receive a good feedback. They smile, laugh or giggle and try to dance even harder to keep impressing me (Keep in mind that after my initial reaction, I switch back to cheering them up while they keep dancing with everything they got). At this moment, they are trying to validate themselves to me and this is where I make my move. This is not going to work all the time but it is a great tool to have.
Critics welcome.
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