I saw a post this week of a guy asking for ways to sleep with lots and lots of conventionally attractive women. Commenters were suggesting to get into an LTR, pump and dump them/ ghost them. I kid you not, these were some of the top rated comments.

If guys are so sneaky/ advised to be manipulative like this, how do vet them, filter them out effectively for a LTR? Of course not every guy is going to be as sneaky but based on today's dating trend, the onus appears to be on the girl to vet the guy better. That would mean that a girl would go through a quite a few LTRs before she finds a suitable one

In which case, How do you manage to keep the body count low, apart from actively trying to not get into a casual rel? Personally I don't care about the body count all that much but it seems to be such an important factor to guys based on some of the comments on recent posts

For example: Last month I saw a post mentioning about how a girl's BF got insecure hearing about her body count being double, mentioning he would've broken up, if he'd known before. Most commenters of that post were ganging up on the girl, sl5t-shaming the girl, saying how higher body counts don't affect men and their relationship but a woman's count does. Of course, a few of them were supportive asking the girl to break up with the guy

TLDR; what are some things you do to vet guys better? How do you manage to keep a low body count?