I was FWB with a grad school Chick and if not for my travel heavy job i would have dated her. She goes of to another city for an internship. Once shes back we hook up a few times then she tells me she met a guy there.

Dude comes to visit once and now they're dating. I wanted to play the long game and wait till she was horny enough to call me. Dude to smallish circles we interact at some parties prior to her calling me.

At these events i am cockblocked heavily by her friends. At Last nights party, we talk we dance, we drink. I say " let's get out of here" then she lets me know she has a bf.

I didnt recognize the shit test and start using logic to describe that I'll leave her alone. We briefly talk about joe i didnt try hard enough etc. I give off an indifferent vibe.

I could have easily pulled her last night and set a precedent for future sex using verbal jujitsu. I feel dumb as hell.

Tips for recovering from this. I still want to hook up from time to time. Should i just set her free leave it alone. Should i try to take her out to one up her bf (bad idea) or wait for her to come to me.