There have been several situations where I've been the only male among females or one of the few men among many women.

In such situations, getting attention from women is insanely easy even purely with 'game' (negs, strong frame, being a skillful, emotionally engaging conversationalist, etc but let's not get into that) Obviously being in good shape, having status in such situations yields amazing results but again, let's not digress.

Yesterday I decided to call 3 women out with me to run an errand and we then stopped for a quick smoke and a coffee. Something that was very palpable in the car and while we smoked is how much they tried to tear each other down. Two of them were models and the other was a regular girl with a regular job but pretty nonetheless.

The models passed thinly veiled insults at each other and it got uncomfortable pretty quickly- 'oh, you don't have makeup on today? Hmm yeah, you don't look like the person on Instagram'

'Oh, you were runner up at that pageant in 2019? Yeah, I was following it... There were like 5 people competing... Good for you'

All three of them were 'friends' and I considered myself lucky to be a guy. I vehemently dislike using the words 'high value' but let's just use it as a placeholder term for something y'all know what I'm describing.... Good, high value men forge solid friendships and simply do not tear each other down especially in front of women. I'm nowhere near 'high value' yet myself but the grind is on every day.

Such experiences make me glad I'm a male with good male friends who work hard and don't really chase pussy.

We talk about men competing for women but women compete for a scarce resource as well. And their competition is... Ugly.

Remember, my boys.... There is no female pallbearer. Ciao! <3