Hey all. So sorry if this is the wrong place to post this, but I just needed advice. I'm pretty shaken up right now - a mod banned me from another subreddit cuz they thought I was fake. Please don't think that. I really need advice.

ORIGINAL: So I've posted this situation before elsewhere, but didn't get much advice and ppl thought i was fake 💀. but I'm lost right now and have no answers.

Basically my twin brother's ex cheated on him two months back with a guy with a bigger dick.

He confided in me that after this happened, he feels sexually worthless. He's been addicted to cuckold porn. He's insecure in himself and his dick size, depressed, and suicidal.

He's so insecure and has no motivation for anything. His self esteem is so so low.

Hes also into some extreme stuff tbh. Like he told me he was reading porn/erotica on reddit where the wife fucked the husband's bully (the guy who used to beat up the husband in high school, in the porn), and he got off to it harder than ever. And afterwards he felt like killing himself. I feel so terrible for him.

This is the link he read btw for insight: https://www.reddit.com/r/SluttyConfessions/comments/numgl2/f_i_went_through_with_fucking_my_husbands_high/

And he's not an unattractive guy either: he's strong, muscular, athletic af and a huge jock (was a former D1 wrestler and teammates with my husband), funny, smart, etc. Even my girlfriends say he's hot, so im not just being biased cuz he's my brother. Oh, and he's a hero too: he saved me from being raped by my uncle when we were both teens.

And yes, he's been going to therapy. It's not working; he's still depressed, suicidal, insecure, etc. I've asked for help from literally everywhere, idk what to do now.

I can't sleep right now. Im so so worried for my brother. I'm worried he might harm himself any moment.

Any advice is much appreciated.

TL;DR: Brother's ex cheated, he's been addicted to cuckold porn, feels suicidal and worthless sexually. He's been going to therapy, but it's not helping.

UPDATE: Hes doing a little better... going to therapy 4 days a week. He seems a lot healthier mentally, isn't crying as much, more motivated to do stuff. He's been working out with my husband, so that's nice, and I try to visit his apartment every other day to check up on him.

I've also hooked him up with a few friends of my own who had crushes on him, since he wanted a "rebound". He's going on first dates with them tmrw.

But he's still suicidal and so so ashamed of this fetish. Nothings helping. Not therapy. Not the gym. Not my husband. Not me. Nothing.

He said he still has thoughts of his ex cheating, and he still has feelings of worthlessness that he's fetishized. But it's not only a fetish, he actually believes these things about himself. That he's unworthy of love. That he's sexually worthless. That his dick is small (when I asked, he said it's 5 inches, which is not small at all imo). That he'll never be able to find a woman who's happy with him. That he will never be able to satisfy any woman. That his ex cheated because the other man was "better" in some type of way sexually and otherwise.

I try to give him more affection: yesterday I hugged him and told him to please not harm himself, and that I love him and he's more loved than he thinks he is. He started crying and said thank you. It seemed to help.

But I'm still desperate for advice to help him. It's driving me crazy and he's sometimes all I can think about. I'm so so worried for my brother.