So I'm a collage student 2 years now had my first actual relationship and it turned out she was an asshole who cheated on me with my friends and manipulated me she would also physically threaten me and beat me also emotionally/mentally abuse me then after she broke up with me I was distraught as I was in denial about the whole thing I felt as if it was my fault so I ended up apologising to her then LATER like a few months later I'm breaking down outside of class with a cigarette and her ex who was previously accused of rape by her he sits next to me and we start talking and one thing he said disgusted me "You know she did the same stuff to me" by that point I wanted to kick her ass but I didn't because she knows my friends and family so I was scared then later on more stuff comes out my friend was arrested on a rape charge on his birthday then lately I myself and my closest mate were accused and I was taken out from my class to have a talk of course me being a teenager I flipped out then afterwards she comes up to me and said "Owain raped me" and he's like mentally disabled he has the mindset of a hyper 12 year in a 20 year old body he probably doesn't understand what rape means so I screamed at her and walked out and now I'm being harassed by my old friends and her friends calling me a rapist and an abuser I've even been beaten for it so I went to the police and reported her recently now I'm moving on I know I'm rambling but I had to post it I thought it would fit on this subreddit