Assume this is the scenario. You find out someone was ignoring your texts because secretly they think you’re stupid, worthless, and/or want to demonstrate superiority to you. Psychologically that is what they would be displaying and trying to appear as if the ignoring is done intentionally and they didn’t genuinely forget or get busy etc.

Theres lots of online dating coaches advising people to do stuff like this too in order to get the other person to “chase”. So what you have in modern times is literally, a bunch of ugly guys and girls, who, might be secretly obsessed with someone, and then intentionally do things like ignore them thinking it will create attraction.

Now if you look into it, this behavior of ignoring people, being unavailable to respond etc, is something that was adapted and modelled after high value people, kings, royalty and celebrities. Someone whos rich or powerful or otherwise has an interesting or busy life, is likely not gonna be available to reply over texts or emails much. They’ll be so successful or rich or busy they won’t have much free time.

So, being unavailable on text, can give the impression the person is successful, busy, rich, interesting life. But it can also give the impression of superiority, like they’re too busy for you, dont have time for you, etc.

What these nutcases in modern times are confused about, however, is that you cant create attraction magically. You have all these nutcases with no lives, no job, who literally are sitting around on phones and computers all day, but who are intentionally ignoring or delaying responses.

So they’re not actually busy or successful or rich or famous, but essentially attempting to fake being so. There’s literally dating coaches advising people to do this to give the impression of being unavailable busy and perhaps “superior”. Those dating coaches not being in prison is also just one more symptom of the moral failure of modern times.

So anyway, what if you were physically attracted to someone but then they’re telling you they’re too busy for you, superior to you and etc.

Would you ever do anything with that person? Wouldn’t it be making you look bad? I mean imagine if they told you (subtly) that you’re dumb inferior and worthless, and then a week later or weeks later wanted to have sex with you.

Would you actually feel good about yourself being in a relationship or having sex with someone who basically told you you’re dumb worthless and inferior? Like they’re doing you a favor by having sex with you or dating you?

If someone on the street verbally insults you or acts snobby with you, at minimum, you’d avoid that person at all cost right? You may even insult them back if they were particularly annoying or kept coming up to you insulting you right?

So why would anyone then get into a relationship with someone who tells them they’re worthless inferior and stupid? I would never do anything with someone who did that. We couldn’t be friends, we couldn’t be partners. In fact the only thing i could do is use the person as a verbal punching bag. This works especially well if you’ve known the person a while and know what their insecurities or weaknesses are. But make sure you only insult their morals or behavior dont insult their race or physical appearance gender etc. you can insult their behavior and morals religious and political views. In most cases, the person will want to leave you and tell you not to contact them. And you essentially won. They told you they feel they’re superior and you’re worthless. You told them to take a hike and get a better upbringing.

I would never refer to myself as superior to someone else unless I had better morals. In the modern world, every other person seems to be referring to themselves as superior.

This tactic of ignoring texts can be especially brutal and insidious because you should give people some benefit of the doubt. It takes time and deduction to truly confirm if someone was intentionally ignoring you to subtly tell you they’re superior and you’re inferior and stupid, or if they genuinely forgot somehow or are bad at texting or super busy demanding job etc.

Because it takes time to figure out, it means they might have successfully ignored your text message maybe 5, 10, or 15 times. So if you then confirm at the 15th time that the whole time they were ignoring you, they were telling you youre inferior and worthless and stupid, it really makes you look bad. Because you continued to maintain a relationship or friendship with someone who was essentially insulting you the whole time. Isnt it kind of embarrassing? You basically stayed friends or partners with someone who repeatedly week after week told you you’re worthless?

The good news, though, is the longer youve known them, the more you know about their moral and behavioral issues, insecurities, and weaknesses. So what exactly would the rational, moral person do, upon figuring out someone insulted you 15 times? Somone insults you once, you can walk away and end things immediately.

But someone insults you 15 times, and you only realized it at the 15th time because their insults were so insidious and subtle? Then you have to do anything you can to mentally destroy them, and then completely break off the connection. They insulted you, and you stayed in the relationship or friendship. So now you need to insult them, until they leave the friendship or relationship and tell you to not contact them etc.