Going out tonight. Havent had sex in over a year and definantly trying to pick up. College weekend

anusbleach11111 · 2017-08-19T01:52:48+00:00

Dude go out and have fun, regardless of getting laid or not. If you're genuinely trying to have fun and make friends (male and female), you'll be more attractive than if you go out with the goal of just scoring some tail. Sometimes when you go out you won't meet anybody who you'll click with and sometimes you will. If you do, obviously escalate, but at the same time don't be needy.

When you go out forget everything you learned here and just be yourself, if you consciously try to change certain behaviors, people can sense that and you'll come off as a creep/fake/try-hard. The only thing you should remember is that you're a fucking man and you fucking have a dick and balls, that's more than enough for a woman to sleep with you. If a girl is into you, all you have to do is kino>isolate>escalate and not talk her out of fucking you.

MartinMcFlyy · 2017-08-19T01:48:47+00:00

Don't focus on getting laid. Focus on building skill and frame. You must be comfortable in social environments before you can pull. Work on game tonight. Approaches, not so much getting numbers but getting conversation.

TrenGod37 · 2017-08-19T06:16:39+00:00

The number one way to make sure you don't get laid is going out with soul intention of getting laid because "you haven't had sex in over a year and are looking to pick up"

I can smell your neediness from over here and I'm not even a woman

As far as social anxiety. YouTube RSD approach anxiety.

Anxiety is caused from expecting a certain outcome. Aka the need to get laid. If you stop expecting anything from your situations. And aim just to have fun. You'll be less anxious.

When you feel anxiety ask yourself what are you expecting to happen. That's usually where it's coming from. When you figure it out and let it go it tends to fade

WholeFoodsMale · 2017-08-19T07:45:23+00:00

Honestly bro you might want to consider going on backpages.com and get an escort to come to your apartment. When she shows up, play it off like you've fucked sluts hundreds of times. Now obviously you haven't, and you're probably going to come in your pants when you hear a knock at the door, but that's okay, consider it an investment towards your future ZFG mentality. Remember, the red pill is amoral. Sometimes you just have to pay a broken women to help you take pussy off the pedestal so that you can get back out there and be the confident jerk boy you always were.

[deleted] · 2017-08-21T03:00:25+00:00

If as a sophomore you don't like freshmen move in weekend there is no hope for you

Title	Going out tonight. Havent had sex in over a year and definantly trying to pick up. College weekend
Author	themangu6
Upvotes	5
Comments	5
Date	August 19, 2017 1:03 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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