Feminist against BDSM/Kinks because among other things, men who participate are rapists? Can't have anything nice anymore.

Masked_Rebel · 2022-08-23T04:44:14+00:00

Fucking double standards. I bet if they saw a girl tying up and domming her bf they'd start applauding.

dw87190 · 2022-08-23T00:41:24+00:00

Yeah, women ask me for choking, spanking, hair pulling and other rough stuff all the time. I don't even have to ask her what she's into, she'll just tell me. These women are the incels they constantly try to make male egalitarians out to be

dependency_injector · 2022-08-23T10:45:23+00:00

Why does everything look like hate to feminists? Is it the only emotion they know?

M_Salvatar · 2022-08-23T06:59:49+00:00

This one has never grabbed neck clearly, that stuff is hot AF...both ways. Sex is about power and pleasure, giving and receiving both is awesome. But if you don't like it, that's fine. I also don't like vegetarian diets, you don't see me telling them to stop destroying plant life...it's their food, let them eat.

I will say though, that before you get into the more extreme BDSM, have limitations, human bodies are incredibly fragile. Be careful with that stuff, you might end up hurting yourself or someone, and that (is your not a psychopath) will make you loose your libido fast.

Fafikommander · 2022-08-23T11:45:34+00:00

I am pretty sure that there are no children participating in BDSM...

elonmusksnewvictim · 2022-08-23T12:46:09+00:00

So we are going against kinks now? let me tell you there are roleplays where the woman plays a much younger character than she is and its legal and moral as well you cant bring up anything against it.

Also why cant we just let people do what they enjoy ESPECIALLY if both parties have agreed on it? Just like we cant tell gay people not to do gay shit in the bedroom we cant tell others what to do or not to do.

Bound-Submissive · 2022-08-23T13:23:25+00:00

Another reason why feminists are never worthy to listen to.

I am BDSM masochist and chains and whips excite me. Also my dom dominating me and being sadistic.

What they don't know is BDSM has boundaries. No punching, no kicking, no sharp objects, no burning...

geekchic924 · 2022-08-23T23:53:51+00:00

That's absolutely ridiculous. If a man and women are in a relationship, and the women enjoys BDSM/rough sex, etc, and it's consensual.... Then what the hell is the problem???

My ex used to be rough with me during sex, and we did some BDSM stuff. But it was because I liked it and told him so. I'm female, and my ex is male, for the record. I honestly enjoyed it and it didn't make him a bad person at all.

nevermock · 2022-08-23T06:17:08+00:00

I swear, BDSM is like a psychological creation of feminism. So much guilt, shame, and anxiety and people need to destress and be naughty. That's why feminism created BDSM.

SpookieDookie483 · 2022-08-23T11:38:11+00:00

By that logic the same applies to women and I see enough soy boys wanting women to do that. To them nowadays. Personally I like doing bdsm to women. I also like being Dom. I don't care how.much they complain. They are just pissed guys don't wanna do that to them. They are probably a tankie.

Zephyr9865 · 2022-08-22T22:45:21+00:00

I agree that such kinks are bad and shouldn't be normalised, and that a partner who hurts you for any reason (nvm sexual gratification) is an abusive piece of shit, but it goes both ways.

Women who like hurting men because "kink play" are no better than the men.As a man, there's few things I find more disgusting than women who are into cock and balls torture.

"Only a woman could have such a lack of empathy towards men to be turned on by busting his balls"(or whatever other fucked up shit goes into that category.

The sentiment towards the thing is right, but she just felt the need to pointlessly gender it.This is a gender neutral problem.

lucky-lee-o · 2022-08-23T15:29:14+00:00

Whenever a girl/woman asked me to choke her, I thought it was strange.

Never understood it until I found out about David Carradine.

Whotfiskarissa · 2022-09-16T04:24:53+00:00

I agree, It is disgusting weather consensual or not, Bdsm and ddlg normalized abuse and paedophilia. I understand that a lot of these men and women have trauma and use this to cope but it is unhealthy on both aides

Title	Feminist against BDSM/Kinks because among other things, men who participate are rapists? Can't have anything nice anymore.
Author	L0llip0pChainsaw
Upvotes	48
Comments	27
Date	August 22, 2022 6:30 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/AntiFeminists
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