30(m) here and I’m trying to get a feel for if my expectations are unrealistic. If you would like to partake, please state your age and what you think is a low, average, and high number of sexual partners is *For your age group.

At 30 years old, it seems that finding someone with less than 10 partners is a challenge. It seems that 10-12 may be the “average” in my age range as basing it off of my past relationships from 25 years old - 30 years old, that’s what each of them has told me.

I recently dated a 28 year old who had a number of 7 and each of them were people she dated (no ONS, no party mistakes or casual hookups).

I was raised very conservative so I thought 7 was a lot too but I can see how that can easily happen by 28-30 considering you date a handful of people from 16 years old - 28 years old (12 years).