What I really needed was apparently being hit with a baseball bat to the f'cking head labeled "reality". I'm not an oblivious idiot I'm a learner (that much I've learned so far). I'll leave this as is. Go have a laugh or two, I'll dedicate my nearest future to find the harshest way to learn reality. Next post I make will be a field report of how I came from almost nill.

"Disclaimer: I'm not trying to get in her pants, I'm trying to get to her heart. Otherwise I could just try random chicks in the club.

With that out of the way, there's a girl which has shown interest in me. She loves to flirt and tease me, quite alot more than her other male friends. Once when we where hitting the club, we got very intimate alot of touching, grouping, to an extend where those I met asked how long we've been together, not if we were together. She wants to use alot of time with me, getting dinner together, going running together, and with my limited ability to pick up cues there are obvious ones. One time when chilling in the evening she suddenly had to go because of a guy texting her, you know the usual stuff that could go through a head at that point. The day after without even bringing it up she assured that she just had to help one of her friends because his car broke down.

With all that I feel that she has interest, that she wants me, so I'm trying to play my game. But my luck turned a bit, when chilling yesterday I casually hold her a little above her hip when firing back at a tease and she verbally said something along the lines of "stop doing that". Later that evening she hugs other guys intimately and sit on their laps like she owns them, which she didn't do before. I don't really mind, I'm not owning her, but what I don't understand is the sudden turn of events. I have a feeling that she's trying me, seeing how long I'll go for her but I'm just not sure.

And that's why I'm asking you? What do you get of this? I'm just an oblivious idiot, still am. I have a lot to learn before I'll consider myself on top of the game, so anything would help."