This might be long but please help a brother out, I'm very new at this. I've started lifting, take care of myself and decided to put this I've read here into practice.

I had a girl over, escalated and made all my moves, we made out but she said she wasn't in the mood for sex. Something about body and mind clashing. I pushed for a bit, she dry humps me, we make out but no sex.

Fast forward, I invite her over again for pizza and chill, she says she doesn't know if I she should come over because she feels like I am too touchy with her and all I want from her is sex. I manage to convince her and she comes over.

When she came over she didn't wana sit close to me whilst watching a movie and after asking her to move closer to me a few times I decided to leave it after she declined the offer. Just before the movie ended she came and sat next to me on the bed...

We chit chat for a bit,played a card game, joked around for a bit, just to make her comfortable. For some weird reason I started getting anxious because I wasn't sure if I should make a move or not because I feard she would reject me. I managed to gather up some courage and went for it but I was a bit soft in my approach and took my time too.

I started with touching her back, moved in for a kiss and I was met with her breaking the kiss about 30 seconds into it and saying this is wrong and we shouldn't do this, she gets really crazy and this is a mistake. So this goes on for a bit, I'm doing my best to break down her defence but to no avail.

She goes on about how the last time she had sex was with her ex bf 2 years ago and it was amazing and she wants something similar, not that "she's doubting my performance" and then later on more excuses about how she's gained weight and she would have sex with me if I wasn't the guy that I am.

This cat and mouse game goes on for a while and it's getting late so she says she says has to go home, so I offer her a place to sleep, she debates and says as long as I sleep in the opposite direction and I keep my hands to myself. I said cool so she proceeds to take of her shoes and climbs into bed...and then changes her mind and decides that its best she goes home.

So I kind of lost frame and told her yeah it's best she leaves because she's playing games here. She goes on about how she's not playing games and she's told me why she doesn't want to have sex, in between all that talk I hear say something along the lines of "you need more training (we had a convo about me training for a new job) I lie about everything"

So I tell her to just go home, I walk her out to her car, I go in for a kiss, we make out for a bit, she breaks the kiss and goes on about how she can't do this anymore and I should just go back inside. I kiss her again, said by and left.

What went wrong or what could I have done better? I've decided not to text her again or give her any attention.