3 months ago my ex cheated on me, lied to my face about it and dumped me the next day. She then started dating the guy she cheated on me with, and cheated on him. Obviously she is a shit person, but was the first girl I told I loved and my first girlfriend. I still think about her every 10 minutes, subconsciously try to run into her out in public, etc.
Then i've found TRP and have been trying to swallow the pill but im having a lot of trouble. Since we broke up I've banged 5 other chicks, am spinning 3 plates, have hit the gym hard every single day and have noticable improvements, exercise daily, started to learn to surf and play the guitar, and have really just been focusing on improving myself. I figured out what my dream career of being a doctor is and have been volunteering and working towards that. Everything in my life besides not having a girlfriend (I really do enjoy LTRs more than casual sex) is going the best its ever been because i've been working so hard at it. Ive lost most of my social fears and have made tons of close friends.
I thought I was beginning to do better, but shes back at school and comes to all my frat's parties so I can't get away from her and see her every other day (still havent said a word to her since the breakup). I found out she has a new boyfriend today and that really hurt. I feel super lonely and want to make an undeserving girl my girlfriend just to have someone. Can anyone give me anymore advice to swallow the pill and get over her? I'm going crazy and don't know how much longer I can handle it, but I feel like im doing everything I can already.
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