How can I become a good tradwife?

AdComprehensive6588 · 2022-10-02T11:01:13+00:00

I don’t think you need to worry about marriage at this age, have you asked your parents?

53withtrollhair · 2022-10-02T15:20:06+00:00

Suzanne Venker on youtube. That will get you started.

finderscreeper · 2022-10-02T13:44:08+00:00

Try learning couples communication skills. This will help you to form and maintain healthy relationships. It's good for anyone! And the sooner, the better

octavionultodoritor · 2022-10-02T10:08:27+00:00

Maybe I’ll get hate for this, but you are 14. You have your whole life ahead of you. At 14 you should be studying and enjoying life, not thinking about marriage.

Assuming your parents are not divorced, maybe the dynamic between them can teach you more than people on the internet. You shouldn’t “learn” to be a tradwife, it should come natural and you should be yourself, not force yourself into becoming one.

ScottdaDM · 2022-10-02T21:45:54+00:00

Take a look at Rebecca Barret, RelFemSapien, and Jennifer Moleski on YouTube.

A woman can explain it better than a man.

buried_alive0 · 2022-10-02T21:55:05+00:00

Right now all you have to worry about is not being promiscuous and going on the opposite direction of feminism and progressivism.

Drakethepirate · 2022-10-02T09:17:50+00:00

First you should learn family values and improve your sense of integrity. Then you have to learn to value your femininity, the positive side which makes you more ladylike such as good manners and decent language. Being traditional is not all about cooking or cleaning as you can see, it's a mindset and a path to self improvement to aquire high value and something you retain with age, unlike beauty for obvious reasons.

d_nijmegen · 2022-10-02T11:00:01+00:00

Bullshit, you're fishing. I don't believe this is real.

kit-kat315 · 2022-10-02T14:46:53+00:00

From a practical standpoint, you'll want to work on your SAH skillset. Cooking, cleaning, budgeting, household diy and classes in early childhood education/development. Honestly, most people would benefit from learning these skills. Even if you change your mind down the road, it won't be time wasted.

When you're older, you need to be very careful choosing a partner to make sure their goals and values align with yours. Also, that you have compatible personalities. Choosing the right person to begin with eliminates a lot of issues later on. And, unfortunately, his income is going to be a big factor if you aren't going to work to supplement it. You'll need to pick someone who makes enough to comfortably support a family on one income- it's more than you might think.

Eta- Definitely don't neglect getting an education and developing skills to support yourself financially. There's so many ways that unexpected events can derail what we had planned for our lives.

divinelight3333 · 2022-10-02T14:24:11+00:00

Look up realfemsapien on YouTube.

https://youtube.com/c/RealFemSapien

SuperSupremeKai · 2022-10-02T14:31:17+00:00

Head on over to r\RedPillWomen and r\RedPillWives if you're serious.

They teach how to be traditional and how to ~~control~~ influence your husband.

pretty_cool_bananas2 · 2022-10-02T19:47:20+00:00

I’m 18 and I’m trying to learn the same thing! I would say practice home making. Cooking, cleaning, folding laundry, learning to sew, learning to make your own clothes, organizing rooms to look cozy and inviting. For me a lot of these things relate to frugality. Cooking meals from home will be cheaper and healthier (if you do it right, home cooked food can be incredibly unhealthy) for your family. Learning to sew clothes from scratch will save you money because the clothes won’t fall apart as fast (again, if you do it right), and you can repair them. Learning to garden is great for saving money too. Babysitting is always a great idea, the more experience you have with children early on the better.

In terms of your personal character, I would recommend saving yourself until you’re older. You’re never going to regret waiting to have sex. If you have it in you to wait until marriage I respect the hell out of that but I don’t think it’s 100% necessary. My rule for myself is that I wouldn’t sleep with a guy I wouldn’t want kids with. Don’t spend too much time on your phone. If you can find other kids your age who aren’t addicted to their phones it would be great to go outside and have fun with them but there weren’t many around me when I was your age :|. So you might have to develop non-phone hobbies by yourself. It makes you a much more whole and rounded person and I wish I had laid off the thing a lot sooner. Don’t watch porn, if for no other reason, it’s terrible for your mental health. Also invest in your mental health! Do everything in your power to become a secure and happy person. Guys are so used to “I’m crazy 🤪” “I’m so mentally ill.” And it’s so much drama and work for them. Crazy attracts crazy. You have it in your power to attract well adjusted men when the time comes if you develop yourself into a well adjusted woman. And settle for nothing less than well adjusted.

I wish you all the best on your journey and I hope that the right guy comes into your life when you’re ready for him. It may not be when you think you’re ready.

If any older ladies see any glaring flaws in my advice then please feel free to give your wisdom. I don’t claim for a second to be an expert on these matters.

tae-hyungy · 2022-10-02T09:36:20+00:00

start reading andrea dworkin, its the only thing that can save you atp

Ok_Razzmatazz_1751 · 2022-10-02T14:21:41+00:00

I gotta ask what the hell is a trad wife ?

Ok_Razzmatazz_1751 · 2022-10-02T14:32:22+00:00

First and foremost at the age of 14 you shouldn't even be thinking about marriage it should be focusing on getting a education and / or life skill that enables you to be able to live independently in case shit happens in life, which it does constantly.

Title	How can I become a good tradwife?
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Date	October 2, 2022 3:32 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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