So first off and I'll make this simple I am a powerlifters/bodybuilder and while my back squat and deadlift are progressing smoothly I am having trouble with my bench. I maxed out at 180 lbs and am currently stuck at 80 to 85% of that. 145 lbs to 155 lbs. It is a bitch trying to get past doing more than five reps at a time and I know if I can do at least two sets of 10 reps at 155 which is 85% then I can find my new one rep max. Any advice for how to get more reps in at 155 lbs?

Second. I have spent years romancing girl and whether I failed or succeeded I could never get what I truly want. For a woman to become passionate and crazy about me to the point where she is basically doing things that a guy would normally do. Excessively being seductive, making the first move, showing signs of confidence and experience and making it clear that she completely wants me. Hell boarder line obsessive would be nice. Basically romantically abrasive and super compassionate. A little bit of that puppy love thrown in the mix too. But let's be clear I don't want all women to be like this towards me I just want to find it in one girl. Just one beautiful girl. That is the kind of shit I truly crave. Advice?