I am definitely willing to let my man lead the bedroom. But our relationship started as my first non-committed adult relationship as FWBs. We meet almost a year ago and I stayed 1000 miles away from my home and business for 6 extra months to continue to see him.

We are both professionals who are articulate, intelligent and decisive about what we wanted as we both had come out of long term relationships and both thought when I left, it would be over. We have decided to be business partners and he is going to move the 1000 miles to me as his job was corporate and mine is ownership.

We are both very honorable, transparent and communicative. My relationship before him was a 20 year marriage without an argument and it broke my ex husbands heart I outgrew him and my partner had a 13 year common law marriage that ended horribly giving him trust issues - he only believes your actions not your words until he truly knows you.

We are not moving into the same home as we both need our time apart as we are very busy people with a lot of outside interests and stress requires we work out I will work late and sleep very little and he has to sleep eight hours.

I am trying to cover all the areas we should discuss and have a plan for as we enter info this arrangement. I am giving up 3 really good marriage proposals but he is the only one who can lead me in private. I have tried to date but no other man compares. He said he wants to get married one day and that he does not like the fact I feel like I am losing time as he says we are on our way up, he knows we make each other better professionally and personally, he likes not having every minute planned and growing together organically and we are both truly logical people who during our time together we have never done anything except be very very good together physically which is only way he shows emotions. He says he can see himself waking up with me every morning for the rest of our lives but we both know that as we kept our personal relationship completely hidden that we never met each others friends and families that we haven’t socialized as a couple. We kept our business off of social media and we are neither jealous, needy or clingy. He never hears from me unless he texts or calls me first.

We covered an verbal agreement when we became FWBs and have both honored our words. I feel like I should finalize what needs to be understood between us and ask he come to me with his list of expectations and I with mine so we can be logical about this. What would stand out as most important areas to cover other than business and money details? Thank you for reading this long post but knew would be all questions if I did not elaborate.