Bf (32m) and I (28f) have been together 4.5 years. We are at my parents house for the holidays. My whole family is coming the 26-28 but he wanted to come the 24-25 cause he doesn’t like my sisters boyfriend. He was supposed to arrive today by noon but didn’t show up til 4:30. He was suppose to get my parents a gift some wine or something easy but said he wasn’t able to. We’re watching a Christmas movie now and he just got sleepy and left the room to go lay down. I am embarrassed honestly I feel like he doesn’t try but then again he did come here (it’s a 2.5 hour drive from where we live).