Are mens feelings often ignored in society?

Aronacus · 2023-01-19T20:54:47+00:00

Yes,

If you want to read a great book about this. Pickup Self-made man by Norah Vincent.

A woman and feminist. decides she's going to dress up like a man and experience life as a man. She joins a bowling team meets these guys who are going through life and their troubles. Most never speaking a word about them.

She comes away from it surprised. She expected men to have it easy and she found out they suffer all the time with no hope.

Where is she now?

Norah opted for Assisted Suicide and is no longer with us. She spent the last few years in a mental hospital unable to cope with her knew found knowledge.

dw87190 · 2023-01-19T19:48:33+00:00

Ignored is best case scenario, since our emotions are almost always weaponised against us

Langland88 · 2023-01-19T23:21:13+00:00

Yes, more often than not, we express our feelings and we're often told to quit whining not just by other men but even by the women. Those women often express their feelings and get them validated immediately. And Feminist women are the very worst when it comes to this. They claim they want to see men cry only to turn around make jokes about drinking male tears.

Normal-Yogurtcloset5 · 2023-01-19T23:00:26+00:00

Often? Post a picture of a homeless man sitting on a sidewalk in the middle of winter and a picture of a homeless dog sitting on a sidewalk in the middle of winter and see which one gets the most sympathy.

sgt_oddball_17 · 2023-01-19T16:25:42+00:00

Tarzaan69 · 2023-01-19T16:59:55+00:00

Yep, makes us stronger. Emotions get in the way of making the best decisions, specially in extreme situations.

Honda4351 · 2023-01-19T21:18:53+00:00

Hell yea nobody wants to listen you got some tits and a vagina though it’s a different story. Not only that if you express your feelings to a woman it goes to hell after that.

aerial_coitus · 2023-01-20T02:45:05+00:00

Yes.

NimbleVaseline · 2023-01-20T01:11:41+00:00

Yes. Men’s emotions are ignored because “men can’t feel sadness!”

ActOutside4853 · 2023-01-20T05:28:41+00:00

Women and system screw over good guys really bad, every day of the week and nobody GAF.

Only logical option is to leave the system thru things like mobility, minimalism, self sufficiency etc.

And instead of being a good guy, work on getting your own shit together.

Amazing thing is the progress you can make being asocial...

And it feels really good.

Basically men in a social system are like free scooters laying around a city... we just get used and abused and discarded.

RunikVarze · 2023-01-20T15:57:15+00:00

Yes. 100%. Read the book "self-made man" if you want a woman's perspective of life as a man. The author actually went undercover as a man for 18 months. She later killed herself, and her nurses reported that a lot of the trauma that led her to do so was what she herself described as "caused by her experience".

I can only assume that means she felt guilty that she had a hand in making men live that way, because she got to escape and go back to living as a woman.

And before someone tries to say the book is biased, she was a self-declared feminist before the experiment and went into it trying to prove male privilege. But it backfired.

Lavarosen · 2023-01-20T00:36:32+00:00

Yeah, unfortunately society has the expectation that men need to be a certain level of emotional and base their masculinity off of their ability to control their feelings. It’s wrong, I’m glad some of the newer generations are recognizing how every individual should be able to express their emotions.

another-cosplaytriot · 2023-01-20T02:55:33+00:00

As near as I can tell the ONLY response is to ignore them.

Frird2008 · 2023-01-20T03:47:16+00:00

If you're lucky, they won't care & theyll just ignore it as if they don't exist. If you're not lucky, they will shoot it in your face.

Title	Are mens feelings often ignored in society?
Author	OkeyyDokeyyYo
Upvotes	45
Comments	28
Date	January 19, 2023 4:21 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/AntiFeminists
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