Females guy friends and definition of date

[deleted] · 2017-09-27T10:31:45+00:00

Nigga she cheated or is going to.

Have some respect for yourself.

DJCheeky · 2017-09-27T10:45:57+00:00

She's going to fuck him and say nothing happened. Stop justifying for her.

tacko276 · 2017-09-27T12:08:09+00:00

Ya if she is going drinking with other guys she just not ltr worthy. Plate her ASAP

TheSilentOne13 · 2017-09-27T12:21:31+00:00

Shes cheating on you. Dump her or demote to plate. if she respected you she would never feeel the need to do this at all.

jb_trp · 2017-09-27T16:24:14+00:00

I know all the responses are going to be: "She's cheating! She's going to cheat! Next that bitch!"

But it's more complicated than that.

How long has she been your LTR? If you've only been dating a month, and she had this guy friend before (who might be an orbiter), you wouldn't expect her to cut all ties from every male right away.

Again, there's always a context to behavior. Like, if you were engaged or married to a woman and she went out alone with a new "guy friend," (or even an old one), that'd be a big no-no, because she's communicating a lack or loyalty/respect/etc. for that type of relationship.

I'm dating a new chick, and we've only gone out for about two months. Things are going well, she's got the feels, spoils me, sex is good, etc. But it's only been two months. Sometimes dudes try to get her to hang out, but she shuts down the ones who are obviously trying to get into her pants, and the beta orbiters who are respectful and don't make a move... She's still "friends" with them. Right now, I couldn't care less. But again, it's not my place to tell her what boundaries she sets, she has to come to that conclusion herself. All I ever tell her is this: "It's up to each person to set boundaries that build trust. I don't think I could ever get serious with a woman who didn't have good boundaries." And either she figures it out, or I'll next her. But again, it's only been two months and I'm not worried about it.

Just don't mate guard, that's beta AF. And if you're not comfortable with your LTR's boundaries, next her.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-09-27T22:36:15+00:00

Hanging out one on one with soneone from the opposite sex is a a date wheb you're in a relationship. If yoir gf went out to get drinks with a guy already, leave her now. Just text her that its over. Dont explain why. Men and women go drink together to reduce inhibitions and loosen up to maybe fuck.

Title	Females guy friends and definition of date
Author	fakeplastictrees87
Upvotes	1
Comments	11
Date	September 27, 2017 10:21 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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