Hello RP,

Its my first time dating for awhile so it's been a major learning experience and I've done most things wrong. I lift, have a good job, not ugly but I've lacked confidence in dating due to not enough practice which I plan on changing.

I've been dating a girl for around a month I met on bumble and we have got along well. I actually made a thread about her already which I invited her over but failed to make moves on her. Needless to say with some persistence I managed to get another chance and sealed the deal.

The problem is I didn't perform well and I think disappointed her. I was honest when she was asking me about how many sexual partners I've had which is 2 including her. She seemed surprised in a not good way. Ever since that night she doesn't text me like she used to and you can just get the vibe she's not interested anymore. I'm no longer a challenge.

What I want to do is keep having sex with her as I need the practice. If I wait a few days without texting her then msg her something like how I want to make her orgasm like never before, could that get her hamster working and give me another shot? I know I can do way better. Or would that just come across as too creepy? I think it could work...

Cliffs: -After about a month of dating finally got laid. -Its been close to 5 years for me (I'm 35) -Performed poorly. (Have a slightly below average penis which has always made me self conscious) -She got me off 3 times and I didn't return the favor. -Girl has been distant since.

Should I make it clear I want more sex and don't care if it's an open relationship?

Thanks