Brief rundown of my gf of 2 years: HB8, 21, senior at uni, doesn't drink at all, only slept with her old high school boyfriend years ago and never dated since, always leaves her phone unattended and unlocked with no passcode either and is ok that I think marriage is a scam and is fine with just always dating. Also anti-SJW. Thought I found a real gem.

Well, awhile back I told her I wouldn't stand for her going to clubs without me while we were long distance for a year (2 hr drive away). She went to one the other night as a DD with her girl friends as a girls night. I looked at some old posts and the RP said to have boundaries that if crossed, means you walk away.

Basically, I told her I would leave if she ever crosses that boundary again because I meant what I said. I would truly end it just so I wouldn't look like a beta. She's upset and confused because I've never been firm like this before. I wouldn't have been so firm if not for RP advice. She says how great she's been to me, how she doesn't even drink so it's not like anything could happen with guys or anything, and she gets to hang out with her friends (small college town with basically nothing else to do).

So what do I do? I get her point, I mean, she has never in 2 years made me question her loyalty. Should I make a beta move and retract my boundary after I've so passionately stated I'd leave if it was crossed? Personally I just think it's inappropriate to do long distance.

Help a guy out.