Sex is always on my mind and it ruins a lot

chazthundergut · 2017-10-12T19:19:11+00:00

Maybe you are coming across as phony, because you are thinking about fucking them but trying to pretend not to care about sex when you interact with them?

Maybe you should think about how badly you want to fuck them while you're chatting with them, and communicate exactly that to them honestly through eye contact and playful innuendo/ banter? And then kino (if they give off good vibes)?

sorry_mommy · 2017-10-12T21:43:43+00:00

Fucking use it. Don't be ashamed and don't try to change it. Take that sexual drive and use it to push yourself to walk up to every sexy woman you see. Look right in her eye and give her that look that shows you'd rip her clothes off right there if there weren't a dozen people around. Use that desire to feel her bare skin by touching her in socially acceptable ways - show you're not afraid to lay your warm fingers on her bare skin.

This will scare the piss out of some of the more shy/conservative girls, but it does wonders for preselecting the ones that are DTF so to speak.

JohnnyKeys · 2017-10-12T23:58:16+00:00

If you are watching porn on a daily basis, you should try no fap

Etlloidgroer · 2017-10-13T01:12:29+00:00

It's natural to always think about sex when your hormones are high, it's a sign of a healthy sex drive. You need to expect, and want to have sex - that's a good thing and women love it when you're straightforward about your intentions and they feel desired. They don't want the "nice guy" beta routine of pretending to not want sex when it's obvious that you do. But you also need to be able to accept rejection. Adopt a mindset of "this is what I'm driving at, but if it doesn't happen, it's no big deal; I'll just try again another time, another way." This doesn't only apply to sex, but to just about everything in life. Getting extremely frustrated or depressed over failure doesn't help you out at all, and if you act butthurt over rejection it's only going to hurt your future chances. You can be rejected by a girl at one point and then sleep with her a few weeks or months or even years down the road. But if you act pissy, you're probably never getting another chance with her. She will remember how you acted and think you're a child.

ANGRY_ATHEIST · 2017-10-13T01:12:43+00:00

because when it doesn't happen I'm almost bummed out

Here's your problem. Women can sense this type of shit a mile away, and if that's really how you feel you're probably failing shit-tests (this is why women shit-test in the first place, to weed out insecure prospects)

badnews4u · 2017-10-13T08:44:43+00:00

you need to read models stat. the solution is in the title

LiveAFTSOV · 2017-10-12T18:11:40+00:00

Masturbate without porn, youll be good

Title	Sex is always on my mind and it ruins a lot
Author	TallManPuta
Upvotes	19
Comments	11
Date	October 12, 2017 5:54 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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