Was friends with a girl because she was my best friend's gf. Hung out a lot as a group of three. Was always very sexual/flirty in a funny way. Am 25 y.o., own company, higher SMV than her. She is 19, low self esteem, high sex drive. I have alpha behaviour overall which she confirmed indirectly. Looks up to me, thinks I'm a man because I pursue my goals 100%, etc. Hung out with her 1on1 a week after my best friend broke up with her. She is always very touchy, bit me, I bit her everywhere. Spent a few nights at my place drinking and doing drugs. We cuddeled on MDMA, I even stroked her butt, went to a whore house with her to look at prostitutes, she told me about her lesbian experiences, etc. My misstake was still not getting sexual enough even after one week.

Told her via fb messenger (audio) that I want her and don't like being friends. But that we can't do this because of my best friend. Goodbye. She was very angry after that, I ignored her completely for three weeks. After that, I told her that I broke off contact with her because of something else. Because she lied to me and blablabla (which she really did - she was spending time with her previous ex-bf again but told me stories how she hates him and doesn't want another man etc all the time without me even asking. I tried my best not to seem jelous but to make it look that I didn't want to be friends with her because she lied to me, not because of the fact that she is meeting another guy. After that she was even angrier, blocked me in fb. After a month she messaged me on WhatsApp and was very friendly. Asking me why I was mean to her, calling me a bro, etc. I was very cold, replied very little. I told her about how I stroked her ass while we were cuddling. She told me this never happened, laughed about it. I believe her because we were very high on extacy. Also cuddling is kind of normal on extacy. I just replied "I like your point of view" after that and told her "I will message you this week regarding drinking and getting high, cheers". She found my reply very funny and whished me a good night. Didn't contact her after that.

My biggest mistake, obviously, was not getting sexual directly after we met 1on1. We talked a lot about sex. I always have a very seuxal humour. I even told her that we will go into my jacuzzi which she replied "maybe" to. I didn't pursue it but brought up this topic a few days later to which she replied "If I had a bikini I would go immediately with you"

She was also very very horny next to me after we went to the brothel for fun. But only because of the women, not because of me it seemed.

My second mistake was not admitting to me liking her sexually and negating my audio message a few weeks after sending it to her by stating it was because she lied to me.

In our last conversation on WhatsApp she also told me that she never thought I saw her as potential partner (which I clearly don't - I just wanted to fuck her but I guess I came off as if I wanted more in our last conversation because I used the sentence "I liked you too much") and rather as a child. Told me she looked up to me, good friend, giving her good advice, etc. I made the mistake of listening to her problems by the way and also opened up to her.

She was always initiating contact, by the way. Always bringing the drugs, hellped me cook and clean. So from her side I believe it was a friendship rather than friendzoning me.

I want to make this sexual again but without investing too much time/work. That's why I want to do it by text message instead of seeing her in person. If her reaction is positive, I will try to meet up with her and escalate. If not, I will cut off contact. What do you suggest?